How do I have game

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-04-21T22:54:29+00:00

Imagine playing a (sport) game like basketball or football. Doesn’t matter what sports. Basic prerequisites are needed. That’s why a coach will tell you to jog, run, lose weight, lift, jump, etc. Same thing with this “game”. Start with some basic stuff first: Be more approachable, befriend others easily, smile and say hi when you see a stranger, start a small talk to people within your circles.

There’s a lot of cases where a guy wanting to get a gf and he was told to do a cold approach. OK sounds good. But he never reveals that he doesn’t even have a friend to talk to. After school or work he prefers to stay at home than socializing outside.

Or whenever he talks to random people he starts sweating. Or it’s a very big deal for him if he had to ask a direction to a stranger in the street or where something at in a store. He doesn’t have all the basics yet he wants to have a gf. It’s totally similar like you wanna play a football game but you can’t even run just for 10-15 mins.

burncushlikewood · 2025-04-22T02:06:36+00:00

Read books, approach, watch videos, reflect, I went down the seduction rabbit hole myself, I studied pick up and game for 4 years! Took me 3 years till I considered myself good

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-22T03:22:25+00:00

See my post "how to learn pickup." Your question is too vague. Read that and ask another one.

Chiiiicckkeeennn · 2025-04-21T23:53:04+00:00

Game is a lot to simplify it it’s manhood. What are the rules/laws/codes for yourself. Game is about having structure knowing what you want and how to go for what you want. Facing fears, game is deep you can’t simplify it into a couple paragraphs game is literally everything you do. How you think about yourself talk to yourself is game. Mfs with game truly believe there kings. Game is has never been and never will be about women, women is just the by product.

SmoothVortex · 2025-04-22T18:14:55+00:00

"The Natural" videos were pretty helpful back then. The tips the guy gave indeed worked for me in the past. I'm married now but had a great time.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-04-25T22:32:26+00:00

figure out what other did and do it yourself go read books on this stuff;!!

MightAccomplished881 · 2025-04-26T11:19:02+00:00

Short answer:

Go and fail bro, it is the ONLY way to achive the game.

NoargFrameston · 2025-04-22T05:51:29+00:00

Abandon all game literature. Start going out and evaluating what went wrong/right after every session and what can you do better. Keep doing that until success. And it'll come sooner than you think.

When you play the Game, you either Win or Give up.

FrogsAesthetics · 2025-04-21T21:58:32+00:00

It comes from inside.

Title	How do I have game
Author	burningacountsexy
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Date	April 21, 2025 9:57 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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