How do submissive men utilize this information?

monkeyman114 · 2016-12-22T20:38:33+00:00

I know a guy thats a beta male, his wife "hangs out" with another dude at work all the time while he sits in his cubicle and cucks all day. Do you really want to be that guy?

failatsomething · 2016-12-22T19:41:11+00:00

I'd rather be the one who gets pursued.

It's just not going to happen. You're clearly realizing this, and your gut is correct. Not sure how much experience you have dating - have you been with chicks that are dominant and have you played the dominant role in relationships and just not liked it? Or are you lazy?

You're going to have to learn to attract the type of girl you find attractive. Most women are not (at their core) dominant or looking to be dominant in a relationship. That makes things difficult for you. But even a chick that dominates a relationship (more masculine energy) isn't going to come up and open a conversation by throwing negs at you lol.

You got to get out and do some chasing.

DaygameCoach · 2016-12-22T20:55:02+00:00

Unless you are talking BSDM and can use Fetlife or something...it probably not going to be easy for you. Men lead, men chase, and most attractive women in the US enjoy and are used to this. Besides, the women who do the chasing usually do it for a reason (whyever they don't get approached or the attention they need), meaning, they may not be the ones you want.

strange_hobbies · 2016-12-22T20:55:38+00:00

You are screwed dude. Think about it. You want to be desired right.

So does everyone.

You are just being lazy. The lazy person does not get the promotion, the lazy person does not get the girl, some people are high achievers and others are not. Stop being lazy.

If you were a submissive you would be going to these fetilife things and rubbing girls feat. You would go to them and ask them to rub their feet. If you put in the effort you get the girl. Do you understand the difference now?

The fact is 20% of men sleep with 80% of women. You are either willing to work for it or you get nothing. Unless you have perfect physique no one is going to chase you. If you aren't knocking it out of the park on tinder you need to work harder. Ask yourself what do you bring to the table. How are you better then every guy you've seen tonight. Then ask yourself that again.

To repeat stop being lazy.

funimuni · 2016-12-22T19:21:57+00:00

Go there and find her
www.fetlife.com

IWriteForGroupies · 2016-12-22T19:26:42+00:00

I believe you are looking for a certain type of woman and you need to learn where to find them. After that, you need to increase your value and advertise more. I believe you could get women to chase you, but you need to find the women first. A good amount of women are not into submissive men. This means you need to learn how to find the ones that are. Good luck.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-12-22T22:26:05+00:00

If you want to be pursued then go out and do all the work needed to get women as the pursuer, then simply stop pursuing. After about a week women will start pursuing you knowing that you could pursue them. It's not really about who's pursuing who, it's about doing your share of the work.

PUA_Mobius · 2016-12-23T12:05:36+00:00

If being submissive is really something that's totally impossible for you to change - I suggest utilizing all the tools in seduction geared towards having a girl sell herself to you.

There are many strategies out there specifically around allowing you to lay back while the girl does all the work, you just have to coax her into the right mindset that you're worth her "work" perse

a_regular · 2016-12-22T20:02:18+00:00

Go to gay bars. You'll get chased there

CrotchFungus · 2016-12-25T18:03:34+00:00

You won't be pursued unless you are really attractive

Title	How do submissive men utilize this information?
Author	CaptLeibniz
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	December 22, 2016 7:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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