How do you bring the conversation into a sexual frame?

HumanSockPuppet · 2012-12-11T20:09:26+00:00

I find its easier to start from a sexual frame than to escalate to it.

Begin with suggestive teasing about sexual topics right from your opener. With a foundation of sexual talk, it's much easier to transition into more serious sexual talk. But always keep it light-hearted and don't fret over the outcome.

achinator · 2012-12-11T21:05:10+00:00

I think this has some great info in it on escalating

pearl36 · 2012-12-12T21:05:03+00:00

I try to start from a sexual frame also, but if you don't, it doesn't need to be a particularly slick transition.

You can be talking to a girl about the weather and then just be like "you're really short, I bet I could really throw you around", and then watch her giggle. It's a bit of a compliance test also, see how she handles the stark transition into sex talk, and then go back to boring shit like nothing happened and you're not sweatin' it.

TheLordG · 2012-12-11T20:56:06+00:00

This is EXACTLY where I feel I need more help. The only way I know how to do this is the question game, and while promising, I don't want just one tool in my toolbag that helps me get my tool into her toolbag.

ozymodeus · 2012-12-11T20:38:49+00:00

Her: Thanks for taking me to this restaurant, this food is SOO good.

You: You know what else is good? Sex. Speaking of sex, I am a fan of anal, how about you?

yoshi_story1 · 2012-12-12T00:46:08+00:00

Ask something like "What's the craziest thing you've ever done?"

or "If you could have sex anywhere in the world, where would it be?"

If you don't want to polarize her with a question about herself, bring up the topic of sex ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE. Show her that you're comfortable with sexuality and it's not a big issue for you.

budguy68 · 2012-12-11T20:59:31+00:00

Iam still working with this one. Heard it from SIN. But just be direct and honest from the very beginning. Plus you set the whole frame. I would only use this in night game.

"I am really just out hitting on women to try and get into their/your panties"

leodoestheopposite · 2012-12-14T01:37:54+00:00

Baby steps. Escalate one baby step at a time. Make stuff up, see what works for you.

rikjames90 · 2013-03-26T04:57:06+00:00

After number exchange go for a hug then kiss tell her your going to kiss her on the cheek. If she responds positivly go for it. If not then its not worth the trouble. If she in fact does respond allow her to kiss you back.

Title	How do you bring the conversation into a sexual frame?
Author	Hypnotical
Upvotes	34
Comments	30
Date	December 11, 2012 7:26 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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