How do you get over a girl?

stoopkid95 · 2014-10-14T16:24:34+00:00

Meet other girls and don't allow yourself to text her. Ignore her in person. When I get over a girl, I keep minimal contact for 1-3 months. When this happens, we are being more needy than her/she wasn't interested to begin with.

mexdave · 2014-10-14T16:40:25+00:00

Time and plenty of work at the gym. You'll work out that aggression but you'll also make yourself feel better in more than one way.

barfbarffart · 2014-10-14T17:46:18+00:00

fuck her friends

korzin · 2014-10-14T20:01:05+00:00

Best way to get over some one is to get under some one. ;)

dking168 · 2014-10-14T22:01:58+00:00

tl;dr: Fuck other girls.

PlatosPlatypus · 2014-10-15T00:18:39+00:00

Some old advice is, "Go out and fuck ten other women."

I don't think it's meant to be taken strictly literally, but the simple act of pursuing other women, of opening yourself up to interest in other women, and the inevitable lays that will result from this will see you through to the other side.

onetothehouse · 2014-10-15T00:50:20+00:00

Time, mainly. It slowly fades away.

sfgfuentes70 · 2014-10-16T05:21:59+00:00

Cut off contact do what you like, maybe listen to some music or watch stand-up comedy?

I'm talking to someone right now (we both have the same interest for one another), As of late it seems like even though she still calls me babe, boo, love, etc., I assume she's losing interest since she doesn't send heart emoji's, takes 12 hours to reply, and countless other things, but I don't know maybe she's tired and busy (She's a battalion commander for her ROTC program) . I use to be VERY clingy, and even though it's almost "going away" , sometimes I still have the urge to send a couple messages. She's probably a 8-10 while I'm a 7~ in pictures(ig/snapchat(thank you low quality iPhone camera)) and 3-5 in real life (I guess I'm lucky).

sorry for going off topic and not directly answering your question, I just had to let it all out.

Daroude · 2014-10-14T14:38:47+00:00

Move on; meet other girls and meet other girls. You might also try to meet other girls. In fact it is as easy as it sounds, you'll think about my wisely choosen words one day.

iscream22 · 2014-10-14T15:48:40+00:00

Definitely move on. You're wasting your time with this one. There are other fish in the sea

AdolfSchmitler · 2014-10-14T16:43:13+00:00

I mean, when you put all that effort into setting up a time to hang and she just won't have it that's a pretty good sign nothing's going to happen. I wouldn't say ignore her, but just don't text her first. If she texts you just treat her like a plutonic lady friend you have. Also when you put in effort to hang and get nothing in return it's a total bummer. I know it's the most cliché thing to say but the reason it's still said is because there's truth to it. But there are so many other women out there, ones that will respond to your texts in a timely manner, ones that will be asking you when you're available to hang. They're out there, you just have to find them.

Title	How do you get over a girl?
Author	austrianfapstronaut
Upvotes	4
Comments	18
Date	October 14, 2014 2:31 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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