What did the reactions be like when you approached girls on street (cold)?

DaygameCoach · 2014-09-11T13:33:14+00:00

You were using direct openers, weren't you? If you are not going direct and still getting a lot of bad reactions, look to your outer game (body language, positioning, dress style, hygiene) and actual approach and what you say. If you are opening direct, you WILL blow out a lot, but occasionally (10% or maybe a little more) will get a STRONG positive response.

Mine are good (even when I was new) when I use "indirect playful" openers. I am NOT talking about "classic opinion" openers.

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etcomro · 2014-09-11T18:27:34+00:00

Like how negative? They shouldn't be terribly bad if you're approaching in a disarming way.

Heurtebise · 2014-09-11T23:41:03+00:00

I'm always using situational openers, they work out well (meaning #-close). I think there are two reasons for this:

1) It immediately gives us something common to talk about, no awkward grasping at topics after the silence following the "Hey, you are cute / Thanks". It's easy to turn the "you" and "me" into a "we" when you are actually experiencing something together. So I guess it puts the interaction in a good frame.

2) It helps me dodge approach anxiety. I even surprise myself opening, so I don't have the time to work myself up about it. By the time I realize I am talking with a HB, we are already deep in the conversation and it's too late to wonder about the unspeakable things that might happen if I try to approach her.

Then, if I had a fun time chatting up the girl, I just assume she did too and ask for a # for a follow up. I don't remember any cases where I got rejected by that point. As a rough estimate I would say about half of the opened sets got to a #-close in the past few months.

Throwaway_d · 2014-09-14T23:30:56+00:00

I approached 3 girls on the street today. Got smiles and awkward conversation from two of them, the third stopped and seemed happy I approached her but said she had a boyfriend.

I wouldn't expect many direct street openers to go well. But when they do go well, they'll go REALLY well.

Practice doing it with confidence. I say my opener really slowly with some big pauses in it ("I just had to say...you look....REALLY cute today"). That helps you to open with some impact.

Title	What did the reactions be like when you approached girls on street (cold)?
Author	austrianfapstronaut
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	September 11, 2014 12:30 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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