How do you go for casuals rather than going for a serious relationship?

HowToStud · 2024-07-06T14:55:38+00:00

SEDUCE THEM.

Look you don't have to lie, if the perfect girl came a long you probably would get in a relationship with them.

Tell them you are not necessarily looking for a girlfriend but if the right girl comes along you would be glad to settle down.

Take them out. Escalate. Have sex. If you don't like them don't continue dating them.

Don't do crazy dates, just keep it as simple as possible, keep flirty and make sure you are somewhere you aca slowly escalate then leave elsewhere to do the deed. This is what has worked wonders for me

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-07-06T21:59:44+00:00

Nearly all women say they're "not into hookups". Nearly all of them are lying.

Its not because they're bad people. It's that society shames women for enjoying casual sex. Ironically, it shames men for not wanting casual sex. Go figure. So we men have to pretend we don't want to be loved, while women have to pretend that they don't want to be dicked down.

So don't worry about what women tell you. Just seduce them. Do what you'd usually do to hook up.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-07-06T15:56:13+00:00

When girls are looking for something serious; they are still sleeping with their boytoys that don't take them on dates while they withhold from their ltr prospects.

Women behave towards each individual man based upon how she categorizes him. They either see the man as a boytoy, a potential boyfriend, a gay friend, or nothing.

Let that sink in.

This is why there is no such thing as a good girl and no such thing as a ho.

If you are going for casual simply demonstrate that you are not boyfriend material. Don't talk about your money or career or even say much about yourself at all.

Speak absolute nonsense, have no cares if she likes it or not, which will keep you out of that "try hard" energy.

With the last chick I hooked up with casually I must've went on for 5 minutes about stupid things that always happen in men's public restrooms, yet we never knew what each other did for a living. She was looking for an ltr, it didn't stop her from sleeping over.

VrilHunter · 2024-07-06T18:45:35+00:00

If you're a guy the likes of which she's never been with before, then she may agree to your terms than let you go.

Keeping in mind this would probably not work on girls who are strictly looking for a long term boyfriend / future husband and are not willing to compromise no matter what.

Basically,

Become a rare catch everybody wants and
Find women that suit your wants.

DaygameCode · 2024-07-06T20:24:02+00:00

By doing A, which is escalating the same day you meet them going for instant dates and same day lays, rather than doing B which going for numbers, asking for dates some other day, and being slow to miss them or have sex with them.

In other words, by acting like you wanna fuck as a one time thing quickly the same day you meet them, rather than acting like you hope to date them seriously wanting to see them next week or acting like you hope to go on more than one date which is what B is.

NathanTR1992 · 2024-07-06T15:41:51+00:00

If you want something casual, act like you wanted something casual. You don't have to say it, because sometimes words scare women away, but you gotta act like it. Of course when they ask, tell them exactly what your intention is. Those who's willing will stay, others will leave.

Do not say or act like you want long term relationship just to have sex. If you do, you are a dishonest, morally compromised manipulator.

LittleLiceLad · 2024-07-06T15:02:59+00:00

Let it be known from the jump, “let’s see where things go” or “not looking for anything serious”. The BEST thing you could do when these girls say they want something serious is just say “I’m not looking for anything too serious, but I’d like to be friends with you still”.

Scheefgaan · 2024-07-06T14:41:51+00:00

Just don’t escalate past the hookup part. Most woman control access to sex whilst most men control access to a relationship. Remember that doing this won’t guarantee they’ll stay in contact with you because they might’ve been looking for something more. As far as places to look, i’d say dating apps offer more of these types of woman interested in casual stuff.

TRTGymBroXXX · 2024-07-07T12:19:58+00:00

Here is my fool proof method. Just walk aimlessly thought the streets, although dark alleys at night are definitely better, accost the first girl you see and blurt out “wanna fuck?”. Keep doing this until you either get laid or get arrested.

Title	How do you go for casuals rather than going for a serious relationship?
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Date	July 6, 2024 2:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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