How do you guys approach

epimpstyle · 2025-12-19T13:50:46+00:00

i wanna know about signs of interest , body language

This is the ideal scenario, however, most of the time you won’t see any sign of interest. When it comes to body language, it’s the same you can’t notice too many things. Only in very rare cases, when you’re in a closed space like a bar, restaurant, event, you might see open body language.... but most of the time no way.

who to approach, who to not approach,

The ideal scenario is that the women you see give you IOI signs, as I mentioned above. But if you can’t see those signs, you need to pay attention to signals that show she doesn’t want to talk to anyone (IOD signals) maybe she pretends to check her phone, maybe she turns her back toward you, or acts like she’s in a hurry… things like that. Interesting that IOD signs are easier to spot that IOI signs... If IOD signs are evident, don’t be a blockhead and don’t start a conversation, it makes no sense.... make things easier for you.

when to approach, when to not

Approach whenever it feels easier for you. It’s easier if there’s a context, a mutual subject to talk about, it makes the interaction more natural. It won’t look like a direct sign that you’re hitting on her, but rather that you’re a social person who happened to meet her, and at that moment you like her and want to know her better. It is difficult to wait for a mutual subject to appear, it won't happen most of the time, but here you need to be clever and make your own luck.

Do not approach if it looks like a challenge: at the gym, while she’s eating, when she’s in a hurry, or when she’s with someone (parents or boyfriend/husband). Talking to a girl should be a pleasant thing, not a challenge or a chore.

theadoringfan216 · 2025-12-19T12:09:58+00:00

Build yourself up to it, I've went on one bootcamp and approached around 200-300s girls but haven't approached in a while.

Now i've done 4 in a row my aim is 7 in a row then I will boost it to 2 girls a day. I feel I have the best game I've ever had all those past approaches weren't for nothing, you don't lose the skill you lose the ability to fire the trigger.

Budget-Kick822 · 2025-12-19T15:16:09+00:00

There are thousands of posts on how to approach. Do the minimum basic amount of research before asking someone to spoonfeed you.

DuchessGumdrop · 2025-12-19T11:59:52+00:00

Approach when she’s relaxed, not when she's engaged in something.

Pickledsundae · 2025-12-19T14:40:12+00:00

From the side works best in my opinion

billoverbeck00 · 2025-12-20T00:11:03+00:00

8 ball in my pocket seems to always work. (Joking but it works well in nightlife, don’t think it translates well into daygame)

Better-South-3039 · 2025-12-20T04:16:04+00:00

I've approached hundreds of times in my life, here's my advice:

-don't think about, do it. The longer you hesitate about pickup lines and whatever, the harder it gets, just get In there! Most of the fear is anxiety

-have ZERO attachment to the end goal. Sure, you approached because they're attractive and you want them. But it's important to know that you're still whole at the end of the interaction! So don't get bitter, sad or anxious about not getting a number or hangout etc.

-this is a numbers game, prepare for a lot of agony. I've stopped approaching because it's antithetical to my new and improved Game whic has made cold approaches redundant. That said, the reason I've been able to have over 15+ sexual partners and hundreds of sexual interactions is based on NUMBERS.

I don't say the last bit to flex. I have a problem. However one man's trash is another man's treasure. These are some dark arts. Don't be consumed by lust! Approach for the fun of conversation and connection, not for any end result.

saryiahan · 2025-12-19T14:03:31+00:00

Go say hi

AlastairXXL · 2025-12-19T20:03:25+00:00

Approach when look in good mode and not in mid conversation

Title	How do you guys approach
Author	Terrible-Pie1410
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Date	December 19, 2025 11:58 AM UTC (7 months ago)
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