How do you guys text back a one night stand

Kdeezy · 2013-07-08T21:07:00+00:00

"Great cardio work-out last night, we should definitely be exercise buddies"

puaCurveBall · 2013-07-08T23:12:35+00:00

This is totally the wrong way of looking at this.

The question should be:

How do I setup the interaction from start to finish so that I can continue the interaction to the place I want to take it?

Meaning if you never want to talk to the girl again, you set that up from the start, or if you want to see the girl as a FWB then you do different things, or if you want the girl as a possible GF, you do another.

Trying to change an interaction from "???" to whatever you want via a text is not what you want to do.

Does this make sense?

56super · 2013-07-08T19:25:52+00:00

I guess the response would depend on whether you want to have a second go round...

kingcal · 2013-07-09T04:10:22+00:00

If the night went well, you won't need a witty message to impress her. Just tell her you had fun and that you want to see her again.

waterskier2007 · 2013-07-09T18:36:43+00:00

If you are framing this as a ONS, wouldn't texting after the fact invalidate that?

inked25 · 2013-07-09T19:46:04+00:00

"I had fun the other night. Round two?"

squattincassanova3 · 2013-07-09T21:33:32+00:00

Depends on what you want in he long run with her. If you SNLed her, lot of times girls still DON'T want to be a slut. You be super dirty with them, they won't respond to you.

RSDkyle · 2013-07-10T17:48:12+00:00

yeah man its a one night stand for a fuckn reason, dont text back. I dont often do one night stands because of several reasons but when i do i forget the girls number and her face unless she was truly fucking amazing

centurijon · 2013-07-08T20:19:24+00:00

"Sorry I ran out of lube. Hope the soreness goes away soon"

EggoGF · 2013-07-09T00:17:43+00:00

If you are going for FWB or GF, the text interactions are the same.

1 Rule = DO NOT be non-needy.

When I read your post "was hoping for some witty examples of how you text a random girl you've hooked up with"... I read "I NEED a good example of a text for that girl I just hooked up with".

Here is what I have done to create multiple FWBs relationships and a relationship:

I usually text something basic the next day. Nothing looking for a response. Then, I go use the text guide on seddit which says not to text too much and to just set up next meeting.

That shit works.

One thing I have realized (being over 30 now) is that most guys get so little action that when they do, they overreact thinking they got the girl. THIS IS NOT THE CASE. Sleeping with her buys you some wiggle room, but not too much.

You need to stick to the rules until you have good sexual chemestry and she is blowing up your phone. Then, you probably still want to stick with a fairly low amount of texting.

but... N O M A T T E R W H A T... Don't be needy in your texting.

Gelnn · 2013-07-08T19:35:50+00:00

I send out a simple "How are you?" the next day, regardless of if I'd do it again.

Title	How do you guys text back a one night stand
Author	dirkside
Upvotes	9
Comments	16
Date	July 8, 2013 7:15 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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1 Rule = DO NOT be non-needy.