How do you structure your daygame approaches?

epimpstyle · 2026-05-05T21:45:02+00:00

Use stereotypes, make assumptions, compare her to a famous singer. Exaggerate what you see, but always match her energy level. Don't push a joke if you see she’s not in the mood. On the other hand, if she responds enthusiastically with an "awwww thanks" or "thank youuuuu" that’s a different story.

It also depends on whether she stops when you start talking to her or if she just keeps walking... if it's the latter, I’d just let her go because she clearly isn't interested. I don't see the point in trying to be a "hero" and chasing after her, you don't want to look pathetic.

- hair... it depends on the length or the color... just find a stereotype. Does she have black hair? "I like your hair.. ... It gives off a strong Italian/Spanish vibe." If she’s blonde, then she’s from Sweden/Germany... It’s just a stereotype. You don’t need to guess it right, it’s only an assumption. She will correct you anyway.

- shoes... "I like your shoes... [they will definitely match her shirt or pants]..... You look like you just stepped out of an office, are you a lawyer?" This is another assumption... she’ll either say yes or no, and that gives you something to build on.

- tattoos ..."I like your tattoos, are they permanent or temporary? [No matter what she says].... I knew it! I was so sure... you’re so easy to read. I just look at you and I can tell you're a hairdresser, right? Come on, don't ruin the moment..." See? Another assumption.

- top .... I’d avoid commenting on the top or the pants.

There is no need to tell her "Hey, this is super random".. just eye-contact + "Hey, nice hair/shoes/tattos" + the assumption.

Klutzy-Painting885 · 2026-05-05T20:23:39+00:00

People love talking about themselves. Start there

becomesharp · 2026-05-05T22:45:50+00:00

Introduce yourself, shake hands, she says her name. If she doesnt say her name and just says "nice to meet you," say "umm... this is the part where youre supposed to say your name." She will laugh and get embarrassed and then tell you her name.

Then say "wow you look just like a <her name>" or "wow you dont look like a <her name> at all" and then give a reason why. The reason has to be true and real. Do NOT make the reason insulting, obviously (e.g., dont say "wow you dont look like an ashley at all because ashleys are always skinny")

This will sequence will usually start a conversation. If she doesnt respond much (some shy girls will say "um thanks" and nothing else), ask if you look like your name (and why or why not). Ask what name she would guess you are based on what you look like.

Her answer is almost always racist or hilariously wrong. Like I'm asian and she'll often say something dumb like "um i dont know, bruce?" which is hilarious because she's thinking of bruce lee, and ill call her on it.

Her laughter will generally cause her to open up in the conversation.

As a newbie, your job is to open as many times as you can, regardless of whether it works or not, because you just need to get over AA and get reps in. Don't ask for a phone number or try to get a date unless she invests a lot in the conversation or hints at it because you want to train yourself to get reps, not to get an outcome, as that behavior leads to neediness and outcome dependence.

Right now opening + learning to lead a conversation is your main priority.

Independent-Bad218 · 2026-05-06T03:58:33+00:00

The general structure is fun conversation for the first few minutes and then more down to earth conversation for the remainder. Essentially this is to cover attraction and comfort parts of seduction.

Now, as to what to say when in set, just use "girl talk", i.e., talk based on emotions and relationships

vertascend · 2026-05-06T08:43:00+00:00

Asking people what to say is like learning to speak all over again; how did you get good, by doing it over and over again, you need to have more conversations so you know how to make it flow as it progresses

ReindeerFun3762 · 2026-05-05T21:30:08+00:00

I'm looking for a free hooker, that's what these girl-next-door types are. Just spit a little game and she undresses. Perfect

Title	How do you structure your daygame approaches?
Author	Fast-surfin-9191
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	May 5, 2026 7:51 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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