How does one become a fuckboy?

TheSaltiestOfHam · 2018-10-16T10:52:22+00:00

I found you don't really 'become' a fuckboy.

I've been labelled one simply because I wasn't looking for something permanent and was also somewhat successful at pulling women. But i liked looking after myself, trying new things, and being confident in my individuality.

I believe most fuckboys are just labelled as such because they are independent and don't want a relationship yet. Not necessarily because they play women to their whims or whatever.

nobody2000 · 2018-10-16T13:43:33+00:00

"Fuckboy" is kind of derogatory. "We had sex, I liked him, but he doesn't want to continue this" BOOM automatic "fuckboy."

You can be clear and forward with your intentions, and you'll always run the risk of being called an asshole, a jerk, a fuckboy, or whatever.

Girls with shitty personalities seem to constantly be complaining about fuckboys.

If you're looking for casual hookups, you need to spend 10% of your time reading shit on here, and 90% of your time getting out there and failing. You've been lifting, so your body is in decent shape. You can get great clothes (/r/frugalmalefashion) and you can get a great haircut, and your face will just kind of take care of itself, mostly. Style is a fix that can be made over the course of 2 hours.

BUT - style is just one way to make things slightly easier for you. Complete slobs go out wearing a torn t-shirt and Levi's 505s after not showering for 2 days and bring girls home. Build that confidence, develop the cadence of flirty conversation, and take lots of social risks.

Bay2ThaWorld · 2018-10-16T16:16:58+00:00

You don't find the fuckboy life, the fuckboy life finds you. Just be super upfront on what you want.

ToxicRocketry · 2018-10-16T13:09:24+00:00

Fuckboy is a label that's given to anyone that sleeps around with lots of girls without actually committing to any of them. Similar to manwhore. It's meaningless.

I got called a fuckboy after having one-night stands with only 2 girls in a row. It was hilarious and not at all accurate.

So as another commenter said, don't aim to be a fuckboy. Aim to be a confident dude who carries himself in a self-assured manner.

shimmyshammy2119 · 2018-10-16T12:43:42+00:00

You don’t need to be a fuckboy to get laid, confidence is all you really need. A lot of the time fuckboy is just a label thats given to guys who get the girls by the guys who don’t get the girls.

I was once the dorky, awkward guy who didn’t get girls and got jealous of the so called “fuckboys” that did. Later on once I started getting laid I had dorky/awkward guys label me a fuckboy even though I’m really not. I’m still that same guy, I’m just more confident and know how to get what I want sexually.

CookieMonsterxxxx · 2018-10-16T10:50:03+00:00

Just work out, you should value physical fitness as much as mental sharpness. Use benzoylperoxide for the acne, dress respectably, expose yourself to girls all the time so that they're not at all foreign to you anymore, ... I also like to look at Conor McGregor a lot - he's one of my greatest idols and a prime example of being cocky while at the same time being able to back your words up with actions.

tramplemestilsken · 2018-10-16T14:09:33+00:00

A fuckboy can mean a few things..

A guy that lies to women to get sex.

A guy that is honest with women to get sex, generally with a shirtless pic on his profile.

Be the second one, maybe without the shirtless selfie, but be clear that you're not looking for your wife on tinder.

chronosthetitan · 2018-10-16T19:13:42+00:00

Based off of what I read on urban dictionary, pretty sure you wouldn’t want to. The only thing that really matters is competency. Aim for that and you’ll be better off.

nschider_001 · 2018-10-16T14:21:42+00:00

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autumnwolf27 · 2018-10-16T14:14:48+00:00

Advice : don't be a fuckboy. Unhealthy/manipulative women end up with fuckboys. Healthy, happy, emotionally stable women avoid fuckboys like cancer. Do you want to lead an unhealthy life surrounded by toxic people?

Title	How does one become a fuckboy?
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Date	October 16, 2018 8:35 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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