Hey Seddit, So lately I'm really hitting a wall. My game has gotten better, but there is a girl that has always been very special to me: Beautiful, hot, nice, intelligent, genuine, caring, funny and entertaining, would immediately marry her I guess. I think I have had feelings for her for about 3 years now, we had been very good friends before (we are 17-18 now). Last year we got closer and I confronted her and told her how I feel about her and she said she needed time to think, since there was another boy who liked her as well. After actually waiting a whole month for an answer (I was really needy back then, but I have certainly grown/changed/matured) she initially said no to both of us, but a month later got together with the other guy. I was seriously heart broken, it was a very hard time for me, even though she broke up with him after only one month. We are still talking normally and rarely go out but it has hurt our friendship a lot.

At the same time i found out about Seddit. I tried to forget about her and my feelings and get with other girls, I thought it would help with forgetting her as well. I had success with a some girls (some were hot and even older than me by a few years), but nothing to be proud of really, only k-closes and make out sessions. A few months in I realized that this is not what Im looking for and started using Seddit for personal growth reasons and stopped pursuing girl after girl, I wanted a genuine, emotional connection, but I'm not a hopeless romantic who would settle for anything, I have standards concerning my partner.

Now that I didn't have girls anymore, I then slowly remembered my feelings again for this girl. She is in my class so I get to see and talk to her almost everyday, and I guess my brain just hasn't forgotten. She really is a good girl, but I really am not able to attract her, I dont know why. Am I not good looking enough? Am I too insecure around her? I really don't know, but I do know that she has high standards when choosing a partner and rarely has one so it wouldn't be easy to attract her to begin with.

What I wanted to know now is: How do Seddit and Long time crushes or "Oneitis" (not sure if this is Oneitis since I'm aware of the whole situation and stuff but please correct me) work together. I think Seduction is suited more to attract many different girls and it's hard to give advice about one girl. Are there any stories about you having been in a similar situation as mine? How did it go? Did you get with the girl with the help of Seduction or did it rather make you forget COMPLETELY about her? I don't want to act desperate (I guess I might be a little), but I really am thoughtful right now and don't know what to do, I just REALLY liked this girl for a long time now and nothing has helped me forgetting about her and my feelings over the years.

Any advice and answer is appreciated, thanks for any help.