How does your game change once you begin an exclusive relationship?

lucasmello · 2013-11-09T22:33:51+00:00

You stop gaming with other girls, that is the only difference

HeyItzJezus · 2013-11-09T21:37:43+00:00

Read Models by Mark Manson

You still want to be confident, charming, and the man that she fell for. Lead your life and be awesome and you'll be great. Always put yourself first, your lady second, and everyone else after that.

If you got into a relationship by using canned material, you're going to struggle.

centurijon · 2013-11-10T02:08:14+00:00

Never stop dating your girl. Ever. Even after marriage.
More introspection. When gaming there's always someone new around the bend, you don't worry as much about how compatible the girl(s) you have are. When in a relationship you have to step back a bit more and consider actual compatibility more often. Learn to objectively criticize your relationship.
Still "flirt" with everyone. Just don't take it to an obviously-flirting level. Side note on this: Always be building social connections and social value.

brisrunner · 2013-11-09T23:56:05+00:00

I'm not sure about you but this is the entire reason I ever got into seduction was to have a GF. Once your in a relationship you do relationship things, game isn't as important now. She's already attracted to you. Assuming that you didn't pick her up off a display of canned and practised routine now your dating. It's fun btw, Game falls by the side but it's still helpful for making friends, getting ahead in business or finding a willing threesome partner.

2013-11-09T23:13:18+00:00

I do everything the same except I don't kino. If she is still keeping her social skills up by guys flirting with her, I gotta keep my skills up by hitting on girls.

2013-11-10T16:02:23+00:00

I'll give you my example:

For the past couple months I have been in an exclusive relationship after 3-4 years of enjoying the single life. Being flirty has become a part of myself, a part that my now-gf completely realizes will always be there.

For example, this past weekend the lady and I went to a concert,which I almost went by myself, and coincidentally were talking about how I do fairly well in situations by myself. Always finding someone new to meet. So the lady goes to use the restroom and of course as soon as she does a group of girls approach me to take their group picture. I tell them sure, but I normally charge $10. The girl hits my arm and says "oh c'mon, I'll give you one of my bracelets" I said sure! I took the picture and she gave me a colorful bracelet.

My girl then walks out the bathroom and of course first thing she notices is a colorful bracelet, obviously made by a girl, on my wrist. She questions it and I tell her how I got it. Her response?..."Of course, I should know better than to leave you alone, ha"

The lesson here, like others have said, continue to be flirty but tone it back a bit. No Kino! No Exchanging Numbers! Just be playful, flirty, confident and a touch of cocky. Also I tell my gf about ALL my flirty run ins with girls. This way she sees that I'm still an attractive man but in the end I am HER attractive man and I mention all my flirty run ins so she has no reason to ever suspect a distrust.

LambchopIt · 2013-11-10T02:07:46+00:00

Just think of it as a change of who is playing the game. You went from playing the whole world and now your in a private match with some awesome. You gain a great opportunity to focus the game on just them and really get to tune in the finer points. Before you had to work a standard that played true to the whole race but now you can focus on the little details specific to them. I always think of it as a challenge in itself. You got the mark and now your playing on the next higher level. Instead of quantity or time your playing to quality. Play your strengths and lock in on your failures to give it a iron clad system. Most importantly just enjoy it! That's why your doing this to begin with.

2013-11-10T06:47:54+00:00

you can tweak game to get better service at restaurants and bars, as long as your SO isn't the jealous or insecure type. And you can really tweak it to get past a bouncer or male bartenders.

But always tip well

brisrunner · 2013-11-09T22:49:55+00:00

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Title	How does your game change once you begin an exclusive relationship?
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Date	November 9, 2013 9:07 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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