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[–]Keightler 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
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[–]buffalocoinz 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also 19.
[–]Ghili 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
19, perfect time to start.
[–]TheNameIsBro 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i'm 20. I'M SO FUCKED
[–]Ghili 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Commit sudoku, your life is over.
[–]StrategicBeefReserve 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
19 as well. damn
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I am 54. My last long term girlfriend was 35 (about 2 years ago). When I was about 22, my first long term girlfriend was 42.
[–]korky1318 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
PUA since 1980 eh?
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Apparently I was a natural, back when I was young. Or maybe it I was just a bad boy, the dangerous punk rocker that women were attracted to. But somehow I lost my mojo over the years. I'm getting it back. I'm currently working on seducing a 26 year old yoga bunny at the moment. It's looking good but it's a very slow seduction.
[–]luigicast 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's nice to see that we have people from all age groups, helps to see things from different perspectives.
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
24
Been reading about the community since September after a few failed dates. Worked heavily on my inner game. Nowhere near where I want to be yet but very pleased with myself so far. Taking it one day and one change at a time.
[–]salem2474 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
27 - Never too late to learn.
[–]luigicast 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to see that you've got the right mindset
[–]DrBadfish28 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm 22. New to the community, but learning SOOOOO much!
[–]luigicast 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Welcome bro, I've been around for a year and I can honestly say that this is the best period in my life, thanks to this subreddit.
[–]DrBadfish28 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can start to say the same for myself. I have seen the escalation ladder work it's magic before my very eyes! This is an awesome community and I'm happy to be here :D
[–]cooler81 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Grade_A_Douchebag 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
18 son
[–]luigicast 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
11/10
[–]twelve112 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
28 and feel 20.
[–]AlphaKarma 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im 20. Maybe 2 months in
[–]-colors 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
22, known about seduction for about 3 years, still too weeny to do things by myself and all my friends think it's dumb lol
agh i gotta get grown
[–]uncleRusty[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol I hear ya on the friends thing, but I also notice they're usually just bein haters
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
26. sigh...
[–]Lolbyrinth 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
26 as well my friend
[–]MyThrowawaySeddit 17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Welcome to the beginning of the prime of your manhood. You've got 10 more years of getting better and better as the women around you start to desperately get you to put a ring on them.
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[–]MyThrowawaySeddit 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
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[–]MyThrowawaySeddit 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just taking the opportunity to reinforce how serious I am about that comment :) From late-20s suddenly you have access to girls who are 21 who date older men and girls who are your age, and girls who are older who want a man who has reached his own. You make more money. You live alone. You have nicer things. You learn how to always stay in the same shape. You start to get a dignified gray in your hair here and there. And you just keep improving every one of these things for a decade until your body starts to really give out in you (hopefully even longer than that!)
[–]Murmaider 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
+1
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[–]luigicast 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice to hear, good luck bro!
[–]MyThrowawaySeddit 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Meowmeowrawrr 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
19 and just subscribed
[–]ThirstxCrow 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
22 whaddup! hooked up with a girl every week this semester. I've been applying the principles of attraction to people i already know, and boom! haha. Also, the self improvement here really really helped me through a bad time in my life, lots of good stuff here.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
22 just started after a getting out of a long distance relationship. Missed a lot of opportunities in college
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[–]Lettucegonewild 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
29, 'bout one year into seddit. Worked wonders.
[–]Icouldshitallday 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Old enough to know what I'm doing.
[–]Lewan72 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
15. I can't really do the approaches right now but all the inner-game and women advice really does help!
[–]RagaTanha 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]sedditpadawan 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
22...I'm going to grad school next year, and I realize I am not happy with my interactions with women, and I will have to start a brand new social circle once I move, and that scared the shit out of me. Then I found this subreddit, and it has been a blessing. It's winter break in my college town, so there's not too many people here. I'm counting down the days until the spring semester to really get the experience that I'll need, especially since I may be moving to Canada or Scotland to get my Ph.d. (I'm American).
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is old, but I came across the thread and decided to page through it. You are in my exact situation. I didn't do jack shit for the first three years of college, then I found Seddit at the end of my junior year (last spring). I've since established a decent (still pretty average) social circle, and I want to go to grad school either this coming fall or the one after. And then I have to start over. I'm super excited and scared as hell at the same time.
Nearly 24 over here. Been doing this stuff semi-seriously for a couple of years now, making steady progress.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
17, been reading up for a year or so? Highschool game is a different game in ways, no such thing as a cold approach since you know everyone, but I think they'll be some of the best years of my life, depending on how awesome my 20's go.
[–]korky1318 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make the best out of it!
I agree
[–]grambo87 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm 25. My last gf was about a year ago. I haven't been with anyone since. Made out with a few girls here and there but too infrequently. My game is lacking and I realize it so I'm taking action to improve it.
Also, I talked to one of the managers of my company the other day and he says that as you get older your fears become harder to overcome. So if you're feeling approach anxiety and don't push through it you need to do it already!
Thanks for the advice bro
[–]martins2309 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm 19 and 4 months, been mostly lurking /r/seduction for 10 months now, in this time I've gone from a complete pushover beta with an obsessive HB8 girlfriend to mostly alpha single man getting with HB7-9's regularly, mostly working on my inner game.
[–]MadSoulSK 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
24 here... soon 25
[–]ehlu15 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
19, 20 in March
[–]loz3vi 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
23 trying to be a nice guy.
[–]assassin391 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
21
me too!
[–]tyroo 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]GalacticJello 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am 7 months into being 20. So close and yet so far to the big 21!
[–]paulgualtieri 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
26, been at it about 2.5 years (started slow, and it really snowballed). Took probably 2 years to get very comfortable with it. Went from barely ever getting any to having two fuckbuddies currently and other random hook-ups whenever possible. This shit does work.
[–]kisaka1 points 13 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
18 in 2 months
1 month to go.
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