How to constantly flirt

Wean1eHu11 · 2024-08-17T00:37:25+00:00

You can’t flirt 24/7, it’s too exhausting. Pick your moments and make them count As a side note those lines are simpy and corny as fuck. Don’t send them to anyone you aren’t sleeping with

appolonysian · 2024-08-17T00:47:31+00:00

Those lines are bad. Flirting doesn’t have to be compliments, nor does it have to be constant. Tease her instead: don’t answer her questions seriously, purposefully misconstrue things, belittle her in a FUN way, etc.

Dandys3107 · 2024-08-17T11:38:56+00:00

Having a break is a very important part in the flirt. Girl needs to process emotions and start wanting more. I suggest to think of flirt with anchor of getting into real life situation and getting physical. There is little point of working hard when there is no clear followup towards main objective. If you feel you can’t make progress, there is no point in jogging in place. It may seem illogical, but if you are all warmed up and horny through texting, but you can’t make next step to get to the thing in real life, cutting the convo may be the best option for your dynamics. It will make the girl instantly hungry for more and you will make clear point that you are not really interested in flat blabbering. Taking some real action would feel like a must next time.

emirsolinno · 2024-08-17T02:32:32+00:00

I don't get your purpose here. Are we talking about girls you didn't sleep yet? Just do a small talk from time to time, make them laugh if you can, and arrange a date. You don't need to text all the time lol where did you get this idea? If you don't have sex and text all the time then you will end up in that friendzone.

If they are not open to meet or not interested to have sex then move on :D You don't even need to talk dirty on messaging, you can but it is not necessary imo.

TRTJimBro1 · 2024-08-17T03:02:51+00:00

That’s trying way tooo hard.

Manapouri33 · 2024-08-17T13:21:52+00:00

Bro u can’t do it all the time, what a stenosis life that would be….. lol just relax man, take a damn breath and do what you love doing. You can flirt with her sometimes tho, tbh I rarely flirt with my gf it’s only bn a month since we bn dating, we just talk most times and I have a hard time stopping myself from being funny and a little shit to her.

Tryna dial down on being the funny guy lol, any tips fellas? We’re kinda crazy about each other which is good, just got of the phone with her before and she said so when’re u free this week? I said “whenever u are lol” she said “ok then everyday….then said kidding”.

Relationships are for everyone, don’t ever believe a man or woman who tells u otherwise lol. Been in the game since I was 16 had so many losses and wins.

Epiphanic_Eros · 2024-08-17T16:23:46+00:00

Get out of your head. Meditation and exercise help. When you’re with a woman you’re attracted to, center yourself in your heart and/or your cock.

Ridiculousrebellion · 2024-08-17T08:32:51+00:00

I’m a natural flirt in person or so I’ve been told. I can charm and make most people feel extremely comfortable. I think via text though a little goes a long way. It you can make it a whitty remark then cool if you’re just fluffing the conversation constantly it’s too much.

Also if these are not the women you want why are you trying so hard? Or even wasting each others time?

vladiVP · 2024-08-17T09:27:44+00:00

Trial and error and you'll feel it Just be playful and casual yk

Westernation · 2024-08-17T18:18:41+00:00

Just remember it’s a back and forth. Don’t chase.

And they’ll give you cues if they’re interested. All You need to do is pick up on them ie ‘Nice skirt. Wouldn’t shy away from watching you pick a nickel up off the sidewalk lol’. And just match responses from there.

Good luck 😌

ShakaPiontkowskie1 · 2024-08-17T19:58:40+00:00

Flirting ISN'T complimenting a woman. That is only part of it. A flirt is a compliment + a tease in the same statement. For example, a girl says she's from Canada, "I can tell...the unique beauty and the funny accent give it all away...". You can think of this as praising her and making fun of her at the same time, or giving a tentative acceptance and tentative rejection at the same time. Another example reflecting acceptance and rejection: she mentions working out, "I love girls that work out, they have a better mindset and are always more comfortable with themselves...that's why I rarely date them..."self-comfort" becomes gym selfies and mirror flexing 24/7...you're not that bad, are you?" In this example, you ask her to qualify herself at the end. All in all, this stuff takes time to learn and implement. Practice on girls you WON'T see again before you take it to girls you will.

Familiar-Quantity-34 · 2024-08-17T03:47:42+00:00

Those lines are wack

DaygameCode · 2024-08-17T12:10:18+00:00

Talking everyday doesn’t make her like you. Because it’s not about quantity, it’s about quality. Mundane constant conversation will do the opposite and make her lose interest because of how dull talking with you feels.

You are trying to play the game through texts, from the comfort of your home. You want them to have fun texting you, to keep the spark alive or something from a distance. But you realise that you have nothing to say, so guess what happens? Girls feel that and they get bored.

So your logical side says “i need to improve to have things to talk about in texts” but of course that feels forced because if you have nothing to say then you have nothing to say. You are trying too hard and that makes you lose value.

So in reality, you want to texts less and meet up more. But of course, you say sure but meeting up and never texting means the girl will feel like she could have more fun, and that if you don’t text her it must man that you are not interested, so how to solve that?

Just send 3 texts maximum per day.

A response to the last text she send the day before, a funny one, and a flirty one.

That’s it. It doesn’t matter if she asks you a question or expects an answer, if you sent 3 texts already you reply the next day to the last text.

You can spread out the texts rather than responding instantly to make her feel like he conversation lasted longer.

when i say 3 texts maximum, i mean that you can send just two if you want or even one per day. Just not more than 3.

And your texts shouldn’t ask questions. or be logical. Just make a funny/humorous comment or a send a meme that applies to her. Simple as that.

And then focus on meeting up, set up dates.

Title	How to constantly flirt
Author	Curious_George1553
Upvotes	42
Comments	33
Date	August 17, 2024 12:19 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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