I matched with this girl and she seems pretty cool on messes and the phone. She told me her last name, though, so I did some fb stalkers and found out she has kids and that her profile picture is exceptional compared to how she looks on the regular.

I'm just grabbing coffee, and I don't want to flake because that's just rude and site seems pretty cool. I don't want to lead her on either. I know people here someone's say that you shouldn't worry about being a dick, but I wouldn't respect myself if I threw all my tact out the window.

EDIT: I've canceled. Thanks for the perspective