How to get laid in high school?

grindforthegold · 2022-07-17T13:32:06+00:00

relax bro don’t be cold approaching ANYONE or using ANY cringe game in HS people will notice and make fun of you. I repeat DO NOT use any conventional game. that’s for real steeet cold approach where you can fuck up and no one cared and even then you should be going indirect for high success rates anyways

use indirect game, just if you have a girl in class or in the hallways that you known is in your grade or class ask about class (always different questions and not so often it’s obvious, should be situational too for example at lunch, do you know what they’re serving today? ugh yeah it sucks/oh i love that, my family used to make that really well, you like spanish food? etc etc) (please don’t approach like a weirdo, be normal when you go up to them like if they’re right by you in the hallways standing still, or sitting next to you in class etc or nearby in lunch. don’t like just go up and be like arms out hey and super weird. be smart you know. then try to slowly transition. do you like the class? same but i prefer english, do you like english? do you like the teacher? ugh they suck right/yeah they’re great, do you know who teaches next year (for example) yeah i love the topic of history it’s cool, my country has some awesome history, where are you from? etc. don’t be a question robot comment on things and if they’re not giving you interest just say thanks buy and try again in a few days with a new question or comment. again just play it cool and be smooth don’t be weird or interviewy.

no need to number close at all, next time you see them it’ll be a warm approach just say hey thanks for the help good to see you again etc and then from there you can be friends and start feeling them out. are they giving you signals for attraction? are they not? if they are you can work from there

if they’re really into you responding a lot etc and eventually you guys are walking around together or hanging out and are side by side, (please don’t force this move right away make sure she’s into you and you’ve already interacted a few times don’t make it cringy)

you can try to let the backs of your hands graze as your walking side by side and if she doesn’t move at all and is into it just hold her hand. if you’re nervous you can even say like “let’s be friends” and hold her hand and it’ll be funny. don’t say this all the time so girls don’t refinish it. use it as like in case of energy break glass. otherwise just hold their hand without saying anything. from there the rest is easy and you can eventually try to kiss them if they’re staring at you a lot and almost waiting for it. do all this slowly and over time. i don’t wanna give you too much so you don’t do anything cringy or stupid.

the main idea is begin interactions by asking questions, then slowly transition into other topics then when you see them again warm approach maybe with another questions and just get to know them. if they’re giving you interest slowly try to capitalize on it.

should come naturally. don’t push things. don’t be awkward or cringy. be cool be easy, good luck

incognito3107 · 2022-07-17T13:49:25+00:00

At your age, I believe home parties and night clubs are the most common places where such things get going.

Pus_sea · 2022-07-17T17:16:52+00:00

Biggest pro tip is just start talking to more people! Find little bullshit to talk about and find common ground and interest. Starting with a compliment is nice but don’t do it every time you try and talk to her, girls love the chase. They want to know you’re interested but also might not be. Be flirty with innuendos. Dress nice, brush your teeth, and shave the neck beard and you’ll be golden

inverted_electron · 2022-07-17T17:37:27+00:00

Just be flirty with girls in your class or at lunch. Be witty and funny and be confident. Stay mainly focused on yourself and friend group though and don’t get too caught up in the chase.

That being said, not every girl in high school will be ready for sex, so if you are hooking up with them and they don’t want to have sex, you must respect that. Also true onwards through life.

Extra-Boysenberry · 2022-07-17T13:12:30+00:00

Prom night

Alternative-Milk-909 · 2022-07-17T13:08:13+00:00

And that’s the straw that broke the camels back

Marcoscondit · 2022-07-17T14:31:24+00:00

You can approach in hallways lol

Towile-Ye · 2022-07-17T16:22:57+00:00

I’m a senior Rn an almost every girl I pulled I either randomly stumbled across their ig or hit them up on snap. My best advice is to not send a “Heyyy” but instead reply to something they posted. Shit u could even jus reply to their story with a single emoji that works too. Good luck.

aidsjohnson · 2022-07-17T17:45:46+00:00

I was never successful in high school because I was the only brown dude there, but from observing the whites I'd say be friendly with people, try to make friends w a girl in "your league" so to speak, make sure the feelings are mutual etc, and before you know it you got yourself a girlfriend and the getting laid stuff might happen. Also you gotta be going to parties and be real social w everyone in general.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-07-17T20:37:04+00:00

House parties and instagram

Neo-Rio · 2022-07-18T01:40:55+00:00

You can approach women wherever and whenever you want.

What's with all these excuses? Don't give her reasons to not meet you. Let her decide that for herself AFTER you've gone up to talk to her.

Ok-Share-8775 · 2022-07-18T03:52:17+00:00

Definitely by just texting or snapping girls in ur school that you have some sort of commonalities. Hanging out with them with friends and just ask them on a date. Also go to house parties

Title	How to get laid in high school?
Author	Gibnez
Upvotes	13
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Date	July 17, 2022 1:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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