How to keep a positive mindset when getting girls in the club

rich_god · 2025-03-27T09:31:50+00:00

Turn jealousy into inspiration. Be curious, learn from them instead of comparing yourself. Don’t focus on results, focus on improvements and long-term transformation. It’s not about getting a girl in the club, it’s about becoming a person that effortlessly radiates erotic vibration. And then you will have more girls than you can even imagine.

nothereforupvotes · 2025-03-27T08:59:53+00:00

Just be there to have fun, feel your body,interact, dance, enjoy yourself and the ladies are gonna gravitate naturally, especially if you're well-groomed

InterestingGate7002 · 2025-03-28T17:11:56+00:00

It's all a matter of perspective, don't see everything as zero sum. Another guy getting a girl isn't necessarily your loss, if anything see what you can learn from the guys who are doing better than you.

My most successful nights of pulling at the club were always the nights where I gave the least fucks. I didn't care about getting with someone or not, all that mattered was just having a good time. Basing your enjoyment of the night solely on how well you pulled just sets you up for a bad time.

Chicagoj1563 · 2025-03-27T10:19:30+00:00

Self amusement. Make everything you say and do a form of entertainment for yourself. It’s not selfish as your putting off a fun vibe that others want to be a part of. But it’s not serious at all.

Get out of your head and in the moment. Use self amusement to pump up your state.

You have to be careful to not overdo it otherwise your just over gaming. You’re the dancing monkey.

But go out and have fun. Say and do outrageous things. Experiment. Take risks. Find a balance once a set hooks.

If you can get your hands on infield footage of experienced PUAs doing this you can see how it works.

It’s just one way to deal with being in your head, but can be quite effective.

everydayguy_ · 2025-03-28T06:03:33+00:00

Just drink more and you won’t give a fuck what other people are doing in the club lmao

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-03-27T15:55:55+00:00

If you're young, clubs can be a good way to meet people. Just look like you're enjoying being there. Don't be the guy looking depressed at the bar. Display positivity by smiling and having open body language. Also protect your hearing because clubs are loud.

MrPound4Pound · 2025-03-28T21:53:28+00:00

are you saying your jealous that someone else got a girl at the club that night?

vxllvnuxvx · 2025-03-28T05:28:07+00:00

self-amusement (whenever I go out, I just troll everyone tbh)

Title	How to keep a positive mindset when getting girls in the club
Author	todhewitt
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	March 27, 2025 8:51 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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