How to Play it After Casual Hookup

Therocksays2020 · 2021-02-21T01:20:27+00:00

Usually a text to say you had a good time. Some space for a few days not to give off a needy vibe and then if you’re both down setting up another time to get together.

AmbitiousTeslaInv · 2021-02-21T16:49:01+00:00

Usually if the girl likes you she’ll pursue you after the hook up so keep that in mind. If she doesn’t she probably doesn’t see you as the best option she can get but she may continue hooking up with you on the side.

Scenario one: she pursues you first after the hook up. You keep it casual invite her out immediately she’ll 80% say yes.

Scenario two: she doesn’t hit you up. I would wait a bit but I would always let her know you had a good time like the other people have said below. Then, I would hit her up again couple days later and ask her out.

From personal experience it’s best to have the girl pursue you after than you pursuing her because it shows that she sees you as the best potential mate she can get and she wastes no time with you. Hope that helps.

Slow-Association6105 · 2021-02-21T01:48:07+00:00

Depends on if you want to keep a relationship with her.

2021-02-21T15:56:44+00:00

Don't make feel cheap. So if you're the first to wake up, kiss on forehead while another is asleep. Make her breakfast or get her coffee/tea then get breakfast together. Reason is to mantain dignity for all and not for other to get buyer's remorse. Buyer's remorse leaves with bad memory. Objective in all stages and types of relationships: to establish memorable experiences beyond when having met someone. That applies in hook ups/one night stands too. Respect is natural right that's important to, for all.

ScreamingButtholes · 2021-02-21T02:59:26+00:00

Text her, make some inside jokes from meeting her (hopefully you talked to her before hooking up), and then when the iron is hot ask for a date.

GarlicTraditional227 · 2021-02-21T11:27:38+00:00

I like to sit back n keep it as it is. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it. If she wants more play-play she got my digits and she can hit my line. The balls in her court. Don’t go tryna make it into something it’s not. Don’t go catching no feelings. Keep it strictly Dickly. Give her kitty some time to recover from the punishment it so rightfully deserved so that next time it’s ready to get knocked right back into kingdom come.

LoadTop5821 · 2021-02-21T10:18:49+00:00

First of all does she have potential, second of all are ready for a relationship. You keep it open, and tell her see how it goes

1dafullyfe · 2021-02-21T18:18:20+00:00

I tell her to text me or I'll text her when we make it back home depending on who's crib we were at. Keep text convo short and to the point. "Made it home safe. Had a great time." Once she replies I end the convo. Then I fall back and let her contact me. If she had a good time she'll reach out. When she does I set up the next date. If she doesn't reach out then I move on. If you want a relationship always let her bring it up first. Until then keep it strictly dickly and let her do most of the pursuing.

GabeDrumBeats7Seals · 2021-02-21T23:32:30+00:00

Depends dude.

mannyjrod7 · 2021-02-22T15:02:24+00:00

It's important to understand that most likely the 'power dynamic' has flipped; before sex, the woman holds all the cards, when she decides to have sex she is essentially giving up her power. After sex, the male will now be holding all the cards. So, she may feel slightly insecure because she "gave it up".

So, I believe it is up to you - the man, to make her feel comfortable about the decision she made. Keep talking to her, don't be clingy nor pushy. If you see a potential relationship with this girl, then the next step would be a dinner date - could be your place or out. If you just want to mess around with this girl, then simply invite her over to your place for drinks.

In any case, you always want to leave her better than you found her. Establish a deep connection with her.

Title	How to Play it After Casual Hookup
Author	Slow-Association6105
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	February 21, 2021 1:12 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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