How to pull shy girls?

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Funky_hobbo · 2024-04-09T17:59:42+00:00

introverted girls become open to the people they like, either as a potential partner or friends.

Maybe she doesn't like you that much or maybe she needs more time.

offinthewoods10 · 2024-04-09T16:43:29+00:00

Maybe she’s not into you? If you are feeling uncomfortable she definitely is. You need to be relaxed and at ease. It’s like trying to pet a scared cat or dog, you need to earn their trust a bit and have them feel like you are no threat.

Melodic_Score_1950 · 2024-04-09T17:46:25+00:00

dont go furthur, not worth your time

Teacher_Of_Strength · 2024-04-09T17:29:29+00:00

Don't. They're not worth it. I don't care how good-looking she is, shy girls don't have good enough social skills to reject you properly. And you wouldn't know how they feel about you because their communications skills (verbal and nonverbal) are terrible.

Just spend time with women with a more vibrant energy.

ChicoBrillo · 2024-04-09T19:03:34+00:00

prob not interested. With shy people just be very nice, build comfort, and be patient.

Badguy60 · 2024-04-09T18:26:05+00:00

Good looking+ a lot of comfort

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-04-09T18:51:14+00:00

I'd say try telling jokes and see if she laughs, but from personal experience with a girl from college too just like that, I'd say she is just not interested lol, very low interest, it is what is , just move on to the next.

Miguell7 · 2024-04-09T19:43:00+00:00

Pull her like you would pull any other girl.

Introverts can be some of the wildest girls in bed. Their repressed extroverted side can come out then.

pcdahn · 2024-04-09T20:04:15+00:00

All girls have interests. Not being a dick but currently you're not one of hers on any level. Find an interest that you can GENUINELY get behind and try to share it with her. If you pick up an interest just to get her to open up to you, that's headed down the path of manipulation and she will most likely pick up on it (I hope) and drop your ass.

Tbh, You probably just want the fuck... As in you're attracted to the idea of being with her because you can't. That's ok, happens... To realize this and still go use a person... not really ok. Girls like her know that as soon as they're into you, the attraction will be gone since it hinges on wanting what you can't have.

If you don't share anything in common with her (ding ding ding, you don't or you'd already be making some progress) then just move on. Don't waste your time or hers, find someone who looks like her? (If it's purely physical) Or with similar vibes (if its beyond physical) but shares your interests. Trust me, better ways to spend your time and energy. GL!

pcdahn · 2024-04-09T20:04:27+00:00

All girls have interests. Not being a dick but currently you're not one of hers on any level. Find an interest that you can GENUINELY get behind and try to share it with her. If you pick up an interest just to get her to open up to you, that's headed down the path of manipulation and she will most likely pick up on it (I hope) and drop your ass.

Tbh, You probably just want the fuck... As in you're attracted to the idea of being with her because you can't. That's ok, happens... To realize this and still go use a person... not really ok. Girls like her know that as soon as they're into you, the attraction will be gone since it hinges on wanting what you can't have.

If you don't share anything in common with her (ding ding ding, you don't or you'd already be making some progress) then just move on. Don't waste your time or hers, find someone who looks like her? (If it's purely physical) Or with similar vibes (if its beyond physical) but shares your interests. Trust me, better ways to spend your time and energy. GL!

Mr_Einsteiin · 2024-04-09T18:03:55+00:00

Be her friend and don’t act masculine. It will attract her

Title	How to pull shy girls?
Author	deathbysvnset
Upvotes	16
Comments	30
Date	April 9, 2024 4:01 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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