get girls numbers but cannot close

tehjoch · 2024-06-06T08:49:01+00:00

Girls give numbers out easily, it's easy to ghost. (Her words)

It's probably your conversations that are not sparking enough attraction. You want to leave them longing for your message...

In your case, as attractive male, maybe you should see if you can escalate more quickly to be the right guy at the right time. When the night has passed, she may not feel desire anymore

From_God_to_Dog · 2024-06-06T09:41:26+00:00

Your not closing because your goal is a number for later date.

That works well online.

But in person, your goal should be to close that day! Or to simply get better at talking and seducing.

Next time go with the goal of, creating tension and moving her to another location of your choice..then worst she says is she can't, but if you can tell she's still interested, take her number then

Significant-Report16 · 2024-06-06T23:47:04+00:00

In the end, girls are also human beings.

Think of a scenario where you wouldn’t sleep with a girl but you would give her your number.

Maybe you were on the fence about her.

Maybe you wanted to be polite.

Maybe you were in a good mood during the conversation but you changed your mind later.

Maybe you got better options later on or had better things to do.

A number does not necessarily guarantee you have an actual chance of closing. All it means is you were social and attractive enough to get a number. Which is far from getting her to bed.

I personally get thousands of matches on dating apps, but the percentage that converts to a close is in the single digits. I’ve had girls that I kissed on a first date or but then they ghost me afterwards. I’ve had girls I closed on a first date and then I couldn’t get them to meet up with me again. Life happens. A number is pretty easy and effortless to give out, it doesn’t really mean anything.

If you want to “close more”, you can either get more numbers and/or work on improving your conversion rate, which can be done by either increasing your value (attractiveness / game) or lowering your standards.

Also if you’re as attractive as you say you are, you should dating apps. It helps screen out girls that are not truly interested. Highly interested girls will actively pursue you and make it very easy for you.

SaaSWriters · 2024-06-06T10:28:04+00:00

Making a girl smile means nothing.

A conversation means nothing.

The point of a number is to arrange logistics after you have both agreed to do something. Therefore, you should only take the number after she knows what you two will do next. You have to let her know that before exchange contact information.

UnderstandingEvery44 · 2024-06-07T00:23:25+00:00

Mods are mad that one guy us more influence on their sub then they ever did

DaygameCode · 2024-06-06T11:10:21+00:00

Why do you always go for numbers when you could just go for an instant date and escalate there all the way to a kiss and taking her back home that same day?

Ghastcat · 2024-06-13T17:02:43+00:00

Skill issue. Kidding. Make your intentions fairly straight-forward and obvious before they have the opportunity to deliberate. Just go for it.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-06-06T13:01:22+00:00

Jfk, you arent good looking - if you were good looking you could be as dumb as a rock and have the grace of Joe Biden and you would be waking up with total dolls curled up in your bed.

This means you need to go through the entire process

Approach
Get the contact
Leave a positive impression
Create a moment for her to recall the 3.
Get her on a date
Escalate while making her recall 3.
Make her imagine what would it be like to be with you
Make her want to make 7 the reality
Not get in the way of making 8 happen.
Make her shake in bed so she thinks coming back would be a great idea

You are at 2, making the Surprised Pikachu face 10 is not happening

awaalehimself · 2024-06-06T09:07:36+00:00

Did you adequately communicate that you have a penis? Your goal was never the number, your girl was to spend intimate time with her. A number is a last resort for when an instant date can't be achieved or when you have agreed plans.

Title	get girls numbers but cannot close
Author	deathbysvnset
Upvotes	12
Comments	24
Date	June 6, 2024 8:15 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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