How to recover after cringey drunk night

Lmitation · 2022-03-19T06:23:00+00:00

If she's still texting you that's a good sign so take the opp to take it in stride

a30centsolution · 2022-03-19T04:17:49+00:00

Easy peasy - "Just ignore drunk (insert your name here) - he's a little wild"

You're in the clear and now she wants to know what you're like drunk.

vroomvroomski · 2022-03-19T03:49:00+00:00

you should respond something like - I lost braincells too so let's call it even 🤝

Girl_shout · 2022-03-19T03:50:45+00:00

Don't play dumb, tell her straight up: "Just ignore me when I get drunk next time 😉"

caketruck · 2022-03-19T04:10:14+00:00

Make a joke of it. What the vroom user said was alright. Or something else if you don't like it. Maybe a "sorry about that" to start off with. Probably laugh about it when you see her if it comes up.

kkeojyeo22 · 2022-03-19T10:59:06+00:00

Apologize for it but laugh with her about it also!

Mistermistery101 · 2022-03-19T14:01:26+00:00

Make a joke out of it. I've drunk called a ton of girls before saying far worse. Which makes me induce that other guys have done the same before. Which then makes me deduce that if that's true then a lot of girls are used to getting drunk phone calls.

From my experience, it's not a big deal if you don't make it one. Just make a joke about it.

The fact that she texted you after all that says she still wants to continue interacting with you.

anotherwayoflife · 2022-03-19T14:08:51+00:00

i know you probably are embarassed a little. been there done that man.

imo though although i wouldn't recommend it because i know how dumb it feels sometimes the girl may have just enjoyed the attention and knows u were drunk so maybe shes excited about your "true" feelings for her. Just try to brush it off if shes still texting shes still interested or at least is curious lol.

cass2769 · 2022-03-19T14:48:56+00:00

Take ownership for what happened and make a joke about it. Her emoji indicates she not taking too seriously.

Say something like “yeah, a few too many drinks…im sorry about how I acted - it’s wasn’t a great look”

Then tell her you are looking forward to hanging out.

Then the most important part. Know your limits and don’t do that again. Once is a funny story but more than that is a red flag.

Woujo · 2022-03-19T17:43:42+00:00

You definitely don't "pretend it didn't happen." Play it off and start acting challenging.

dodged_that_one · 2022-03-19T19:13:46+00:00

"Sorry, I was culling my weak braincells with alcohol before our date and it was their final wish, what could I do?"

bestmenrmenatbest · 2022-03-19T15:24:03+00:00

If she likes you, you can get away with a lot as long as you give her just enough to stay

tdroylshy · 2022-03-19T17:29:06+00:00

Acknowledge, apologize, learn from it, move on with intention of not letting it happen again.

2022-03-19T17:37:03+00:00

Not using phone while drunk is a fuckin must control.

TEMPLERTV · 2022-03-19T22:57:51+00:00

Lean into it. Let her know sometimes you loose brain cells listening to yourself too. If you play your cards right it’s not a game ender. However, you should probably work on the things that make you so needy because it won’t work out well for you if you don’t. Best wishes going forward

HingaDurgen7 · 2022-03-20T05:03:03+00:00

As long as your college aged or early 20s then this is acceptable and shows you’re out doing shit. But if you’re 25+ women will see this as a red flag cause you can’t control yourself

Title	How to recover after cringey drunk night
Author	HingaDurgen7
Upvotes	115
Comments	34
Date	March 19, 2022 3:46 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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