How true abundance feels like?

PostAvailable9966 · 2026-04-07T16:56:48+00:00

Has nobody hear heard the paradox of hedonism? Its cliche at this point to expect that women will solve all your problems in life. Given exposure, you will get used to everything, the novelty will wear off.

If you want the full neurochemical game behind relationships and girls, here. But, abundance is only temporary and it mainly involves around having the next girl, not the one you have now, and god forbid, not the one you had one week ago.

Silly_Randy · 2026-04-07T17:39:11+00:00

It's like being a billionaire. You don't worry about saving money. You have it in abundance. You don't worry about saving. You don't have FOMO because you can do anything, at anytime.

Or when you've completed a game. And you go back to play it. You can speed run it now. You know what worked the first time. Hell, you might do things differently for fun

Elegant-Wolf-12 · 2026-04-07T17:08:18+00:00

It feels like ease. It's being at home in your body-mind. It's the gentle joy that flows without cause, once we release all the expectations and start to be present with reality in all its richness.

And yes, it is very seductive to both men and women

DarthBroker · 2026-04-07T17:55:39+00:00

I dont know if being with 100 girls really counts as abundance..If you start screwing at 18, and you are now 40, that is 22 years..only 1-2 partners per quarter. Abundance is more of a state.

I lost count after like 60 a few years ago, and I probably am close to/above 100 (mid 30s). One year i definitely ran it up and hit like 25-35. I mean a new girl almost every weekend for a year, but I was also getting out of a break up and thought that would help me (I was wrong..lol young and dumb and it was my college GF who i was with for the whole time).

Once you know you can score, it really isn't hard. You have past data on what works and what doesn't, and you just apply it over and over.

When I think back about my 20s, I realize how being with 60+ women in that decade alone is like lowkey disgusting. I am actually ashamed of it. I was trying to fill a hole in myself by seeking external validation through sex and I wish I would have never done it. It is only by God I am here today with 0 std or pregnancies.

I have WAY more fulfilling (and freakier) sex within the confines of a committed, loving relationship versus being in the field. There is a chance my current LTR may not work out in the near future and I thought about going back into the streets like I have done before. However, if it ends, I am probably going to take 1-2 years by myself and focus on things that really matter, not chasing sloots.

Affectionate_Boss657 · 2026-04-07T16:46:12+00:00

Lots of girls i interact and took number and did not go well on the first day itself they start ghosting ,and it happened today also ,that's what true abundance

wilhelmtherealm · 2026-04-07T16:56:00+00:00

Those guys aren't on seduction forums 😭

Title	How true abundance feels like?
Author	robofrogmagus
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	April 7, 2026 4:42 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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