I’m back home in a major city in Northern Europe. It’s the biggest city here, the women are beautiful, and quality is around 1 million. I have a lot of free time after job hunting, working out, cooking, and hanging out with friends. I could easily go on four or five dates a week.

Back when I worked like a donkey in the corporate world, the most I could manage was a midweek date and maybe two on the weekend.

I’ve noticed that most girls work 9 to 5, so first dates usually end up being night drinks. Three evening drink dates in a row feels weird. I might take them home, but usually I go to their place because they have work the next day. I leave in the morning after sex and breakfast.

I’ve paused Hinge for now. I didn’t realize you could keep conversations alive. I’m new to dating apps.

I like to chat for a couple of days before setting a date. I can’t set a date two or three weeks in advance. That kills the vibe and sometimes makes girls get cold feet.

If you were in my situation with a limited budget, cold weather, coffee as expensive as beer, and plenty of free time, how would you schedule dates over a month if you had 2 or 3 girls you could take out for a first date? Second dates would be cooking at my place or hers.

It’s a good problem to have, but I don’t want to spend money without results. I’d love to hear how you’d handle it.

P.S. The city is expensive, and I’m 35 plus with my own apartment.