I can't get into the mindset

nextAccount · 2011-09-19T05:47:06+00:00

No step is too small. Have a look at some new clothes online, find something you think would suit you. Go out and buy a new jacket, feel good about looking a bit smarter than usual. Start with a few affirmations, try feeling good about yourself. Exercise, it makes EVERYTHING easier. Just because someone over on /r/fa hasn't had a girlfriend yet says very little about your odds of getting one.

If you want to look at odds have a look at the human race - nearly all of us find mates. It's unlikely you won't. People are made to mate, if you want it you'll get it. Just take your time and keep taking small steps in the right direction.

Nothing ever happened magically in one giant leap so don't worry, you don't have to make one - all you have to do is keep taking the steps and the journey will take care of itself. Give everything time to click in, and then take the next step. Simple.

iznou · 2011-09-19T14:28:01+00:00

Build a bridge and get over it.

JoeyPockets · 2011-09-19T05:33:50+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWoAvqhODJs

kanji_sasahara · 2011-09-19T14:28:12+00:00

Exercise, buy some nice, fitted clothes, and just generally try to take steps towards being the best that you can be. I used to think that I would be forever alone, but once you take steps towards improving yourself getting some will just happen.

DesignMyself · 2011-09-19T14:51:03+00:00

Stay out of r/foreveralone.

heckz · 2011-09-20T00:53:38+00:00

Keep trying and little successes will make it more enjoyable, just have to get the ball rolling at first

Title	I can't get into the mindset
Author	ForgotMahPass
Upvotes	12
Comments	7
Date	September 19, 2011 5:00 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/kk6rr/i_cant_get_into_the_mindset/
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