Been single less than a week after a 2+ year relationship. We lived together, so I’m still setting up my new place.

After work I go to the gym. Then go to sprouts/Trader Joe’s for dinner and talking to girls.

Saw a shorty with a fat ass (exactly what I’m into). Walked up and told her I’d be kicking myself if I didn’t come say hello. She responded decently well.

Found out she’s new to the area and we are both from the east coast. She’s free tomorrow. We exchanged numbers. After the number, I asked what she had going on tomorrow. She said not much. So we scheduled a smoothie and some beach walking. At the end, I went for a high five and she came in for a hug!

We texted a bit after and planned it for 6 tomorrow. My first date in like 25 months. I’m excited for tomorrow!

Don’t just stop at the number. Don’t just grab the number and run. Numbers are just for logistics and don’t mean shit. I like that to be the mid point of the conversation. Have the number already in your pocket. Then find out logistics and see when she’s free next and jump on it. Don’t make it so you have to game them again over text to schedule a date.