If you could only learn one thing from Seddit, what would it be?!

bl1y · 2014-02-06T13:12:25+00:00

Here's what's holding back probably 95% of the guys who aren't finding success:

Get the fuck off the internet and go talk to women. This stuff takes work. It's not a knowledge set, it's not trivia. It's a skill and skills take practice.

If you want to learn how to play golf, you don't sit at home reading about proper grip, and stance, and how to follow through and all the complex physics of the ball's trajectory. You go to the damn driving range and learn to hit the ball, and if you need help with your grip or stance you take about 2 minutes getting help, and then you go back to hitting the god damn balls.

Pickup is the same way. Your total time on seddit, reading, watching videos, all theory combined should be at most 10% of what you're spending in the field talking to women. Most guys have the reverse ratio. 10 hours online for every 1 hour in the field.

patropolis55 · 2014-02-06T10:45:32+00:00

You gotta love yourself before anyone else can. Live life for yourself. Be who you want to be and do what you wanna do.

I know this is more than one but I had trouble finding things to say which encompassed the whole idea of Seddit

bl1y · 2014-02-06T15:06:36+00:00

The best thing to learn would be:

"Log the fuck off Seddit and go out and talk to girls".

This is a great board, but as someone who founded one of the regional lairs, I can honestly say that 90% of the value that Seddit has created for me has been in helping form a group of people who have met up in real life and gone out and had great times together. The theoretical exchange is great and all, but it hasn't made me better. Going out with people I have me through Seddit is what has made me better.

If you're not doing this, you're missing out on the real point of Seddit, IMO. Join a regional lair, or start one.

ItsNotAScam · 2014-02-06T04:52:31+00:00

How to stop being a "nice guy". Becoming more aggressive and dominant towards women is an excellent goal.

AskmeIfIamFapping · 2014-02-06T04:59:28+00:00

That nothing- no knowledge no videos no books absolutely nothing can beat field experience. I know ppl who spend months studying pua material and reading books waiting for a magical day when they are ready to be a pua when instead they should be out sarging and using pua tools and guides and videos only for troubleshooting their infield experiences.

xxnnddrr · 2014-02-06T19:32:33+00:00

You're not becoming a PUA overnight. It takes time. You go on a journey with ups and downs. A journey that's never complete but you feel that you're live changing very slowly and in a beautiful way. Best feeling in the world

xxnnddrr · 2014-02-06T19:33:28+00:00

You're not becoming a PUA overnight. It takes time. You go on a journey with ups and downs. A journey that's never complete but you feel that you're live changing very slowly and in a beautiful way. Best feeling in the world

Title	If you could only learn one thing from Seddit, what would it be?!
Author	jamespet
Upvotes	7
Comments	21
Date	February 6, 2014 4:34 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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