I’m having a problem

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-06-24T20:05:54+00:00

Either do improv classes (this will take time), find improv exercises and do them OUT LOUD at home on your own.

Use a canned opener, just so you get used to opening and preactice it AT HOME out loud so you are used to it.

A lot of guys digest wayyyy tooo much theory, then go out and somehow expect to pull it all off, are stuck in their heads and comes across as creepy.

Also lower your goals, give yourself permission to just open and walk away (after thanking them for their time and wishing them a good day).

If you were learning French at school, would you just watch a video or read a text book ONLY, then just fly to France and expect to speak fluently off the bat.

Comfortable-Tart-420 · 2026-06-24T20:36:49+00:00

say hi whats your name

naosoucalvoprometo · 2026-06-25T14:09:58+00:00

Looks are invitations, from that saying Hi, Im X, you? Is totally fine and something light which doesnt stress you out. From that keep the conversation going

messias94 · 2026-07-01T19:14:16+00:00

Die ersten 5 Minuten sind nur dafür da um zu schauen ob du überhaupt mit der frau warm werden kannst. Mit small talk starken augenkontakt etc. Worüber du mit ihr redest ist egal du musst einfach improvisieren

Title	I’m having a problem
Author	Best_Marzipan_7774
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	June 24, 2026 7:24 PM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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