So growing up, it was always obvious that girls went for the tall, good looking dude. I always figured that looks where "it". Sure personality played some part of the equation, but it made no sense to me that it was a "minor" detail compared to looks.

After going out, and trying to talk to women, and interacting with women, it has become apparent to me that... maybe... I may have not been right in the way I perceived things. However, I'm trying to make sense of how I can interact with a beautiful woman, and trust that my personality, and social cues into my personality, social skills, and charisma might be able to change the way a woman perceives me.