I’m starting to give up

whip-in-hand1 · 2021-10-26T22:22:34+00:00

If you’ve been left on read for 5 weeks, that already should tell you that she isn’t interested. Going to her Instagram after that is at best desperate and at worst (not to sugarcoat it) stalker-like. My advice is to move on and find a girl actually interested in you.

Also, if any of your other social media names is the same as your Reddit, then you might consider changing it.

hulk_hogans_nutsweat · 2021-10-26T23:09:13+00:00

You have a lack of abundance and probably a crush on this girl. If you have to try to get her interested in you then she’s not interested in you. This is not a Disney movie, you’re not going to negotiate attraction. Based on what you’ve said here you’re not creepy yet, but if you keep it up you will step into creep territory. You say that you see her at the gym, but do you ever talk to her? If not then why are you looking her up on social media and messaging her there?

Let her go.

totalwarwiser · 2021-10-27T00:47:27+00:00

Dude, you are totaly missing the point here. You spent 5 weeks thinking about the wrong person: her. If you have to think long term about someone it should be you.

The idea about women is that you shouldnt deposit all your hopes on a single woman, you should be constantily working on yourself to improve your atraction levels to a lot of women. From those that find you atractive you then pick those you like.

So stop thinking about a single female, focus on yourself and try to find out which women around you are already atracted to you.

Calamity__Bane · 2021-10-26T23:36:43+00:00

Does anyone have any ideas or advice for me ?

Ya, it's a waste of time to go after her, just be chill and go find someone else.

5_7pickup · 2021-10-27T04:39:39+00:00

Lmao its over. Give up on this one. Move onto the next one and dont DM. Just approach.

TheBig_boy5490 · 2021-10-27T06:26:10+00:00

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UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-10-26T22:24:54+00:00

Yep. Approach another one. And ignore/ treat her as others in there.

You’ll see the magic.

gangweedsavedme · 2021-10-27T00:17:28+00:00

Let go. It can only get more cringe if you don’t.

yurifca · 2021-10-27T00:17:48+00:00

move on

Title	I’m starting to give up
Author	TheBig_boy5490
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	October 26, 2021 10:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qghn6s/im_starting_to_give_up/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/im-starting-to-give-up.1273505 https://theredarchive.com/post/1273505

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