With all the guides, steps, infographics and 20000 word posts, no wonder you guys are in your head all the time, you have so much to think about. This is taking you further away from your goal.

All you have to do is this;

  • develop the ability to accept and be confident in yourself (this could take years) - this is 95% of what will make or break you
  • take care of your mind- meditate
  • take care of your body - exercise and hygiene
  • buy clothing that fits your body shape
  • approach often to increase your chance of meeting the right girl
  • approach with the mindset "is she compatible" instead of judging her value in relation to yours - ask her questions that will allow you to answer this question

That's literally it. If you do the above and nothing else it will flow more naturally.

Stop thinking so much and just be.