instant rejections more common than we think?

Woujo · 2017-04-10T21:02:38+00:00

It's amazing to see how often he is getting outright ignored and instantly rejected by girls when he approaches them!

I hate to sound like a douchebag, but this almost never happens to me. Whenever I approach a girl, we have at least some kind of a conversation. Sometimes the girl makes clear she's not interested in having a long convo, but I rarely get an auto-reject. Perhaps it's my tone or demeanor. I'm also not a super good looking guy.

I don't like the whole school of PUA that says approach every girl in the club, get 99 rejections, and then maybe that last one will talk to you. It's not fun, and it basically makes it impossible to have a fun night out with your friends. For me, I only approach girls I find really attractive or that I really want to talk to.

I do realize, however, that for an organization like RSD, they need to sell the "approach approach approach" paradigm.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-04-11T13:44:21+00:00

A coach with his experience is obviously doing everything 'correct', but it doesn't stop lots of girls just outright ignoring/rejecting him.

The take-away here is, if anyone who tells you that seduction helps you get "any girl," they're just trying to sell you something.

And I'll also say, that not everyone needs to have the same aggressive style that Alex has. As Woujo mentioned, being more targeted is another option. As opposed to shotgun spraying and trying to literally approach every girl in the place.

t1mman · 2017-04-11T16:05:29+00:00

Why you shouldn’t take this personally:

Thing is, you don’t love all types of woman, some has better chances because they are healthy, they have good face symmetry and are not full of themselves. But, even then, some dudes are totally into fit gals, some are more into higher fat to height ratio, some are into big butts, some are into small tight butts, some will only see the cleavage, some are into a body curve, some will get high at a flat stomach, etc, etc. So, basically, you probably like a type that I don’t, or that another man won’t.

And that’s fine, and you shouldn’t force yourself to be into every type of woman. No matter what the “[blank] shaming propagandist” tells you, you don’t have to be into [blank] type.

And, it goes the same way the other side. You can’t force feed something to someone who doesn’t like it, can you?

Just like, for example, that you brew beer, not only you brew it but it’s goddam amazing! You know it’s great, you know people that like beer love it. But, that’s that! people that likes beer, not anyone likes it, and even more, not anyone that likes beer like the type you makes! Some can’t stand IPA, some swears by them! What appends when someone doesn’t like it? Do you take it personally? Do you try to force feed them until they start liking it? No, you don’t! You respect their decisions; you accept it and move on. Ain’t anything important there!

So, that’s it! People have tastes that differ from one another! Just like yours differ from every others. Nothing to be taken personal, you just have to find those that fit in your tastes and that you fit in theirs.

Title	instant rejections more common than we think?
Author	phillconnors
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	April 10, 2017 8:26 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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