Is approaching random women “appropriate”?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-05-14T01:55:30+00:00

Don't get caught up is being concerned with what is or is not socially acceptable, just do what you want.

All you need is a knowledge bomb. I've said this a thousand times...approaching a woman is only considered creepy or inappropriate if you are not her type. If you are her type it is considered charming, it will make her day, it's a good deed. Keep in mind you may not be actually doing anything inappropriate, women will call a guy creepy to shame him just because he wasn't "chad". The opposite holds true, if you are attractive to her she will break all of societies "rules" for you. All these "rules" and stigma about approaching are for the undesired. Rules are broken for the desired.

The key is simply read the person. Have a normal conversation and don't show motive until you get a green light. She will give obvious signals either conscious or unconscious, use your instincts and you will be able to tell if you are her type or not. If u get a green light them mix in some flirting, if she is acting closed off or stuck up, excuse yourself and move onto the next one. If you read the person right you won't have to worry about acting inappropriate, plus your rejection rate will sharply fall just because u ain't hitting on anyone that don't want you to.

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-05-14T01:06:41+00:00

When ur fundamentals handled, it more than “appropriate”

When they’re not, then you’ll be viewed as “creep”

Work on ur attractiveness. Then do it w/o sec thoughts.

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2022-05-14T01:33:12+00:00

No it’s not. Cold approach works, but only in certain situations. Like talking to a girl in class, in line, at the library, etc. If you are going out of your way to approach women during the day then it’s weird and unnecessary. Just talk to women throughout your day and see which ones are interested.

An even better thing to do would be to meet women at clubs and bars if you want to approach women who are looking for guys.

jsbach123 · 2022-05-14T01:19:27+00:00

Not only is it cringe as fuck, but women have seen it before.

We live in the world of TikTok where there are literally millions of approach videos. If you go up to someone with an opener or "wow, I think you're cute and wanted to say hi", she's seen it before.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-14T01:12:55+00:00

Good question. I actually discussed this topic with a female platonic friend last week. I asked her what her usual reaction is when a strange male approaches and hits on her. She said, I usually think this is another guy trying to get into my pants. I asked her if she thought most women think that way and she said yes. So to your point, if you’re approaching strange women and think that you’re just being friendly, they are likely interpreting it differently.

Title	Is approaching random women “appropriate”?
Author	Various_Bass_7553
Upvotes	3
Comments	29
Date	May 14, 2022 12:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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