I (34m) been dating this woman(33W)for about two months. She was absolutely beautiful and went all out on looking good. Guys would get a double take. The first month was smooth sailing with morning text with kiss emojis and many dates inbetween . But once we had sex the text messages died down a bit and the sparked died down too.

I asked her if everything was fine. She said, yes, but that one date we had she wasn’t feeling the vibe and she was having trouble communicating with me. For context, I asked her on a date for Friday night to go bowling or a pub and she agreed to either one. Friday rolls in and after her work she told me bowling would be too much and decided we should go to the pub. The pub she took us was honestly lame. She did not want to have a beer/drink and they had broad-games not many so we played chess… Once that was over we headed out cuz she wasn’t feeling the music,did not want to dance, and it was loud. I walked her to her car and chatted for 20 mins. Before leaving we hugged (the hug she gave me was long and squeezing hard) and she gave me a peck kiss. In my head it was like yeah… something is wrong, cuz she normally kisses me with passion and that hug was a bit off too.

I told her maybe it was a one off date. She was like ok you’re probably right. Since then it’s been downhill. She went on a vacation she had planned months inadvance that took three weeks. When she got back a few days after we went on a concert date that we had planned awhile back. Everything seemed fine that day of the concert. We drank I was making her laugh but she kept her distance. When I tried to grab her hand she would either grab her phone or in pocket. On our drive back to her home I asked her if everything was fine. She said yes. We get to her home, pick up her belongings and gave me a hug and said good bye….

We text a bit here and there after the concert date but is mainly me reaching out. I saw her IG and is having a drink with a guy. She @ the guy and location. I saw the guy and yeah I’m more attractive than him physically. But I spiral and saw someone of the photos she posted on IG and he has been liking some of her pic while we’ve been dating. She has been commenting with 😘💋. Funny enough that location she posted that was one of our dating location.