https://youtu.be/mc95otnQEnk?si=D3rd4W3VCIflXMW8

Video of me doing 4 approaches and explaining why they are important. Approaches begin at the 16 minute mark, but I recommend watching the whole video so you understand why these types of approaches are important.

Summary of the video below:

The video explains a simple dating method called a “hit-and-run” or “false time constraint” approach. The speaker recommends keeping approaches simple by:

giving a quick compliment,

briefly explaining you can’t stay long,

then asking for the number.

He argues beginners should avoid overcomplicated “game” tactics because they create anxiety and overthinking. Instead, he encourages practicing many short interactions to build confidence and become comfortable with rejection before moving on to longer/more "complicated" approaches.

The speaker believes confidence should come from basic social skills and self-worth rather than memorized techniques. He recommends gradually adding longer conversations and humor over time.

The speaker demonstrates 4 approaches of this nature in which he gets 3 numbers.