Firstly this has only happened twice. When I have been in these sets it has been going very well, escalating, she cant stop smiling around me, I have already hooked up with her or am ready to take her home, then suddenly I stuff up something major (one time I waited way too long to give her an ultimatium and didnt follow through with the bad option when she couldnt so I essentially self compromised, the other I did something when she said I would get something before I got it aka, I became a doormat instantly) and the target would go and give her number to another guy with me standing right there usualy the moment she felt I wasnt giving her enough attention to stop the start of her interaction with the other guy.

The latest one however called me up at the end of the night wondering were I had gone, followed by the txt "you missed out" to which I replied with something along the lines "no, you missed out. Even your friends thought you were a bitch giving your number out infront of me just after receiving mine and leading me on, please fuck off". However I suddenly though, could this be some sort of shit test? she was obviously keen at the end of the night so could this be a shit test to see how much I care in which case I should just lean back, relax and talk to her friends or even flirt with other girls around? Or am I right to just write them off and move one, and improve for next time?