Looks Aren’t My Issue. Texting Is.

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-30T21:47:19+00:00

however I’m doing something wrong during that initial texting which makes girls just disappear.

no , ghosting happens it's totally normal . it's not that there's some 190CM ceo or some influencers in her inbox so they prefer them to you , it's just in her biology to ghost/reject.

however reducing bounce rate & getting yourself to the point you no longer give a fuck if 9/10 girls you match With them ghost require 2 things :

1) take better pics: not about looks , just take better pics! pics dictate 95% of your dating app results , upload only 2-3 pics but those pictures should be highly embellished & portray a guy 100 times better than U

2)rapid escalation : this is polarizing yes , but it's best to filter out for girls who are down not the ones who wanna waste time by clowning around & playing games.

how to apply? your opener should be inviting her out or to come over,

i used these 2 openers for a long time & got all the results i wanted :

"wanna have drinks and chill?" "WYD tonight?let's grab some coffee"

anything but agreeing/Yes from girls means goodbye, i unmatched if she said ANYTHING but okay , when she says yes just grab the whatsapp number to "make it happen" ping her & set the date on w.a , that's all . don't text ANYTHING ELSE not on the app & not on w.a.

Educational_Bother36 · 2022-05-30T21:16:09+00:00

Would you say you’re more laid back? For me if a guy is not being assertive it’s hard to want to meet them. Like you’re just being passive and we aren’t having great texting convo it’s going to die out early.

Im an introverted person so I like other introverts but two passive people get nothing done. Someone has to be the leader and in the beginning stages of dating traditionally it’s the man.

Any-Advertising-1410 · 2022-05-30T21:12:30+00:00

They ghost you after the date or after you ask them?

ethical_slut · 2022-05-30T23:58:55+00:00

What are you texting?

Are you using full words and punctuation?

What dates are you suggesting? Coffee? Drinks?

intelectualycurious · 2022-05-31T00:28:12+00:00

How is your texting game and what are you doing during your text?

PatientAssociation62 · 2022-05-31T02:34:48+00:00

There is no "game" in texting. The phone is for making and setting dates only.

Title	Looks Aren’t My Issue. Texting Is.
Author	OutcastByChoice
Upvotes	5
Comments	19
Date	May 30, 2022 9:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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