Safe - don’t be needy, creepy, or overbearing

Unique - give her compliments because you genuinely want her to feel good, not to gain sex points. Ask her interesting questions to get to know her genuinely and remember details about her. Don’t mention or imply that you are interested in other women.

Desired - express your authentic sexual energy towards her through your body language, eyes, and communication, without being desperate or over-sexualized.

Challenged - don’t always agree with her or defer to her in decision making. Be a leader in your relationship without being domineering or insecure.

Feminine - Be in your masculine center with her. Take initiative in planning dates, listen intently, don’t let her shake you when she tests you. Be unapologetic for who you are and be secure allowing her to be who she is. The more she feels like she’s carrying the weight of the relationship, she’ll be in her unnatural masculine essence, which means more testing.

Curious - Be spontaneous, don’t get rigid or too reliant on routines. This is easier said than done in long term relationships. Surprise her with small details from prior conversations. Don’t be too forthcoming with details about yourself when first getting to know her.

Independent - This is just as much for you as for her—give each other space to develop as people individually. Don’t put each other at the center of your respective worlds and become unbalanced.

Sexual - Lead, dominate, worship, and protect in the bedroom. Discuss preferences and boundaries, but take the lead while making her feel safe. Lose your inhibitions, not your control.

Feel free to add your own.