Make pick-up your desert, not the main course

bl1y · 2013-09-10T02:27:16+00:00

I think most people come here because for them pickup already is a desert.

:-(

charm3 · 2013-09-09T23:33:32+00:00

It's Dessert.You can thank me later.

Afeni02 · 2013-09-10T01:53:49+00:00

Yup, i live to have a fun, spontaneous life. The confidence and fun just naturally attracts girls. I find that when youre too busy doing you/ improving yourself constantly/ setting goals for yourself and meeting them, thats when guys seem to attract girls without even trying. All traits that make up an alpha male biologically attract females. I dont even use this subreddit for seduction, i use it to learn useful information that i can apply in the real world and to improve myself and to become the best version of myself that i can be, the females are just the icing on the cake.

FeministsLoveMe · 2013-09-09T20:42:32+00:00

I completely agree, and really like what /u/tofutofu had to say about his primer to being a modern day man. This place is all about self-development as an entire person, and while many people like to bag on that, go ahead and stroll over to /r/theredpill and notice that there tends to be a great deal of bitterness and mistrust, and personally it seems like a community full of jaded individuals chalking up past girl issues to them all just being bitches.

It's all about bettering yourself as an individual and i've reached a phase in my life (which I owe a lot to this sub) where I simply just live life to the fullest every single day. I grab a sushi date really quick, play a round of golf with my buddies, get a workout in, go out and meet an awesome girl at night, then wake up easily for class the next day (where a girl in class approached me and gave me her number to hang out) because I didn't need to drink myself silly because I've developed the internal confidence to just get myself out there.

Obsessing over any one part of your life is sad, and will pigeon-hole you into a dark place both 12 year old and 80 year old you would both agree is no place to live a healthy life.

sedditdee · 2013-09-10T04:56:38+00:00

You should be so busy working out, net-working, sleeping well to recover, learning new things like how to spell in your native language and developing hobbies that you value your time infinitely more than the girls you’re trying to meet.

Definitely agree with the RSD guy, here -- don't want to spend too much time in the desert with all those sickly ecotic beauties (?) -- or time in-field with guys who literally teach pick-up for a living, while using double-talk to pretend that others shouldn't follow the example they're setting (and selling) by making girl-getting their breadwinning vocation and chosen "lifestyle"...

Someone else said it more succinctly a few years before the RSD guy pretended to have the answers (actually, this version is a bastardization of the hypocritical original): "do as I do, not as I say..." That's probably what the pickup artist "guru" knows most will do, anyway, which is why he continues to churn out videos, posts, and self-contradictory "words of wisdom" like the quote above. Hope I'm not the only one who notices the incongruity there.

slurmfactory · 2013-09-10T19:10:53+00:00

this is very true because if you spend all your time doing PUA stuff, youre gonna be shallow and empty in a sense, since you spend all your time chasing women. Once you get the woman, you dont know what to do with her because you spend all your time chasing em!

stfuendie · 2013-09-11T04:37:16+00:00

does the phrase go "there there" or "here here" (or hear?)

i sympathize with you buddy.

Title	Make pick-up your desert, not the main course
Author	GuruDev1000
Upvotes	41
Comments	27
Date	September 9, 2013 8:21 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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