Dating Is Over - AskMen

Sete_Sois · 2013-12-31T02:24:53+00:00

that one long ass humble brag article about how much pussy he got

thrw2 · 2013-12-30T23:43:09+00:00

Fuck.

I've been doing this for a long time. Ask her on a "date," go to dinner, take her home if we like each other. Plenty of make-outs and f-closes this way. Invariably, the ones that DO drop out always at some point make some comment about how I seemed "serious" (when it's the last thing I am right now)

I guess this is it. I'm not excited for this news. I like calling it a date. I like nice dinners. I think that's casual. Damn.

mhrdth · 2013-12-30T20:40:13+00:00

What I've found is consistent with this article. Usually classic dating intimidates girls. It's far better to just mention a hangout and escalate from there

snakers · 2013-12-30T23:49:37+00:00

Askmen is awful. They only have a few different perspectives of what dating's actually like, and a lot of the crap they put up on their "10 lists" is just vague shit designed to make you interested and continue to see their advertisements by refreshing continuously.

2013-12-30T21:35:54+00:00

Ask a girl out on a date and "OMG!!!" because it's regarded as a huge commitment and you've backed her into a corner. But have something you're doing, invite her along or bring the party and she'll always come along without a second thought.

They're both essentially the same thing, but you should isolate and escalate in the modern social scene. This makes it into a "date," and you should have a high success rate.

Varies from woman to woman though.

shopdog3g · 2013-12-30T22:20:07+00:00

I dated a girl who didn't hook up with me for months. But would tell me stories about random blowjobs and sex with guys she had just met or had no intentions of being in a relationship with. After we started hooking up I asked her what took so long. She said that I was special, she liked me and the way I treated her and didn't want me to think she was slutty or not worth it. So I realized that if I want to get a bj or get laid at a party I should just be the asshole that's not worth it in the long run. Her girlfriends affirmed that this is sound logic and almost completely true. I was shocked.

asleeplessmalice · 2013-12-31T05:55:05+00:00

Decent article, but seriously fuck that website. On mobile, at least.

jsnstancil · 2013-12-31T06:26:55+00:00

This article is garbage. Askmen is the male equivalent of Vogue or some of those other non sense magazines some women read

HUMBLEBRAGS · 2013-12-31T08:29:08+00:00

Say what you want about this website, but this article is spot on. The culture of most women these days says that it's good to be an independent single woman and to be scared of anything serious. Dating before having sex is in the past. Honestly, I'm not a fan of this and it saddens me a bit, but it's the truth. It's almost like the only way towards a relationship is through casually hooking up until you both gain serious feelings and no longer want to be casual anymore. Sure it's possible to date first, but it's a rarity these days and takes a certain type of girl.

rib-bit · 2013-12-31T00:20:37+00:00

Is it me or is this guy obsessed with how much he spends on dates. I wonder what his dates were like. I'm older than he is and I don't get it. Sounds more like this guy felt compelled to show off by flashing cash and suddenly realized you can get laid without doing that...

frogma · 2013-12-31T16:33:37+00:00

He doesn't mention fun casual dates at all. Who takes a girl they met at a bar to a nice dinner on the first date? I'm not surprised they got freaked out. Plus what girl wants to eat food in front of you the first time you hang out?

I would stick to something like bowling or grabbing a few drinks at a lounge at first.

mindfully_liberated · 2013-12-31T18:06:08+00:00

This shit's probably late to the party, but what a great article.

I don't play this game for petty shit. I don't. I go big or go home.

After a night of at bats, a k-close, #-close are all loses to me.

I mean, don't answer, but ask yourself, how many of your # closes have led to anything? I'd be a liar if I said even 1 in 10.

I don't do that shit no more, get the number close after a f-close. that's a win.

This has resulted in me being way more aggressive and passionate in making escalation happen as quickly as it the situation allows.

I'll fuck a bitch in a bar bathroom if the situation permits...shamelessly. Pretty much if I see a big wave, I'm a least try and surf it. That's my motto.

My numbers have improved significantly with this mentality.

Creathus · 2013-12-31T03:26:43+00:00

You seriously believe this shit? Askmen is, and always has been posting nonsense like this. You can easily compare it to Foxnews.

hmmnonono · 2013-12-31T22:55:41+00:00

I only got two worthwhile pieces of advice from that article. The first one is that chemistry happens when you live in the moment and enjoy yourself, which is very true.

The second piece of advice is more subtle and wasn't explicitly stated. It's that you can get tons of pussy even if you're a dweeby looking dude like that guy.

Title	Dating Is Over - AskMen
Author	GuruDev1000
Upvotes	140
Comments	58
Date	December 30, 2013 8:03 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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