So I was cooking in the dorm and saw this girl sunbathing in a bikini on the grass. I thought going and gaming her if she would be still there after my lunch. Anyways after the lunch I went to her and did the game with an opener like "I was cooking back there and saw you, you seemed kinda bored from outside and i decided stop by for a couple of minutes to meet. She said she was reading a ebook which i noticed that when she said it. Anyways for around 5-6 min conversation went really well. Got her number and arranged a meetup for 2 days later.(she had plans for the days before).I told her that i will text her later in detail. I texted her one day later which is in the style of my usual text to girls.(keeping it short and making statements instead questions) my text was like :
Hey ###! It's ###, that hot guy from yesterday :) . Let's meet around 20.30 on Sunday. At ##########. Talk to you later! :)
I always send this kind of messages because I also don't like texting that much. I always prefer face to face talking which i am good at and avoid texting. But i see this kind of reply and reaction for the first time from a girl;
Hey ####! I am always down to get to know new people, but to be honest I did not like your approach very much... To assume that I was "bored" although I was clearly reading a book when you sat down is a bit disrespectful, and to just demand when and where to meet is also very patronizing. It's cool in a way how you just walk up to people and start a conversation, but I don't think that I am in a place right now for us to have any common ground for further interaction.
Despite it didnt affect me that much because there are literally millions of girls out there, experiencing this kinda surprised me. Anyone of u lived the same situation?
PS: She comes from germany. And the funny thing is I always had the weirdest interactions with the german girls.
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