Many dates but none last

tru3boy · 2021-11-12T22:49:04+00:00

don’t give off the impression you want to settle down early on with women (it’s unattractive, makes you seem desperate/clingy)
don’t over-pursue, women love men who have a life and don’t reply so fast every time she texts/calls
take the lead whenever possible
one thing that helped me with women was not focusing solely on one while I’m dating (now this may sound counter intuitive but when you have things going on in your life and your also talking to 2-3 women, you naturally have less time for each which tends to make you seem unavailable hence more mysterious/attractive.

Just some pointers, wish you the best

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-11-13T00:02:23+00:00

Hard to determine the root cause without more information. You might be too pushy or not pushy enough. You might be too needy, maybe you're catfishing them, maybe you're just boring. It could be a multitude of reasons.

DryAdhesiveness6579 · 2021-11-12T22:02:57+00:00

You need to elaborate a bit more, for help. I’m assuming you’re coming on to strong, texting to much.

If you’re getting the dates it’s working.

You need to make sure you’re doing the following: 1. Make sure to at least kiss her at the end of the date. 2. Don’t text her immediately after the date, wait a day or 2 and just say i had a nice time, let’s get together again when are you free ? 3. Go on 2nd date, escalate more. Repeat step 2. 4. After date 3 you probably should have hooked up. If not after this date wait for her to get in contact with you. Then make a date.

Overall don’t text between dates. Keep chitchat to a minimum. Watch some corey wayne videos on youtube. Take it with a grain of salt but he has good advice.

tb12871287 · 2021-11-13T11:45:22+00:00

You escalating?

talibanbuddah · 2021-11-12T23:04:44+00:00

You out here giving free meals

nupollution · 2021-11-13T00:01:26+00:00

Please share more details about what happens on these dates. There’s likely a common denominator. Let’s figure that out first and go from there

badbunny9191 · 2021-11-13T07:06:07+00:00

I’m in the exact same boat bro

WheelIntelligent1354 · 2021-11-13T15:15:52+00:00

You are attractive. Know that, if you weren't women would not go out with you. That being said, your behaviour during dates does something unattractive. Try giving more details.

thementalyogi · 2021-11-12T21:43:58+00:00

Be more unavailable. Give less of yourself. Commit yourself to your own work and life, find purpose and power in your own work. Give women 0% of your attention while you're apart (except as is needed to set up time together). When you're with them give 100%

pgoodye1 · 2021-11-13T13:40:51+00:00

If you saw- I posted recently about this because I have the same issue. I get tons of dates. Reading 3% man by Corey Wayne really opened my eyes - I was doing literally the fucking opposite of what a man should be doing to attract a female.

There’s a reason why the girls I didn’t like, wound up pursuing me, and the girls I did like, ran.

FloatingTelegram · 2021-11-12T21:49:21+00:00

It means you look better in photos than in person ☺️

So your profile needs a nerf 💁🏽‍♀️ take less flattering photos ☺️ so that you look better in person ☺️

GoldenEagle71 · 2021-11-13T14:02:42+00:00

How did you get the dates, btw? I've hardly gone on any and I don't consider myself borderline unattractive.

boycott-mondays · 2021-11-15T22:26:32+00:00

The first date, you should be escalating to sleeping with her, if not that, then you should be kissing her at the end of the date.

Go on the date, and have a normal conversation. Don't oversell yourself with texting. So many guys do this. They tell them everything about themselves before they meet up. Women like a little bit of mystery to the guy. Keep the conversation, to meeting up in person.

At the end of every first date, if she is not angry or she is walking away from you. Kiss her...KISS HER. Don't ask, lean in and kiss her. If her body is facing you, that is the green light. If you don't kiss her then it's not a date, it's two friends meeting up and talking about life. You are doing the same thing as if you were to take your guy friends out.

Don't show to much interest right away. Compliment her but tease her a bit as well. If you tease her a little, she is not going to take offense. But she is going to think that she thought that you liked her and are going to put on a pedestal, but now she has to work to gain that attraction back. It should be equal attraction

But very important, kiss her... If you're not, some other guy, with more confident is

Title	Many dates but none last
Author	pg5565
Upvotes	19
Comments	32
Date	November 12, 2021 9:38 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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