Almost all my hookups and relationships happened when I was being my nice guy non-player/seductive self. But when I was my seductive self the girls would make me wait, or if we did hook up they wouldn’t want to see me again or it would just end awkwardly.

It’s like whenever I’m not trying to be flirtatious they become flirtatious, but when I’m actively trying to be seductive most of the girls get out off.