What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?

xvszero · 2022-02-26T17:48:16+00:00

He’s angry at the girls his age because they are “difficult”

You already answered your own question. Shitty men who just want a woman they can control often don't like women their own age because they are harder to control.

Sad_Quote_3415 · 2022-02-26T16:26:24+00:00

Younger women are easier to manipulate bc they don't have a fully-developed brain yet. Many people use this to groom the person and mold them into their liking. 30 year old women have a lot more experience and knowledge of how manipulation works and that annoys many men who rely on those tools to coerce women.

18 year olds are less likely to be opinionated, confident in their stances, and they are overall more compliant.

Another aspect is that younger women tend to be more easily amused, and men get an ego boost from being with someone who thinks it's cool they have an apartment, a car, a career, or whatever it is a 30-year old has that a 18 year old most likely doesn't.

In sum, they need to put a lot less effort. It's a huge power imbalance.

Practical-Shoe2404 · 2022-02-26T23:37:17+00:00

Sounds like a slow descent into pedophilia. You might seriously want to get your friend help before he hurts someone. Im not judging, here. Just concerned

WannaBeA_Vata · 2022-02-26T15:10:55+00:00

Your friend hates the prefrontal cortex, which is the part of the brain that tells women why they are angry and offended by him.

" It doesn’t matter how smart teens are or how well they scored on the SAT or ACT. Good judgment isn’t something they can excel in, at least not yet.

The rational part of a teen’s brain isn’t fully developed and won’t be until age 25 or so.

In fact, recent research has found that adult and teen brains work differently. Adults think with the prefrontal cortex, the brain’s rational part. This is the part of the brain that responds to situations with good judgment and an awareness of long-term consequences. Teens process information with the amygdala. This is the emotional part.

In teens' brains, the connections between the emotional part of the brain and the decision-making center are still developing—and not always at the same rate. That’s why when teens have overwhelming emotional input, they can’t explain later what they were thinking. They weren’t thinking as much as they were feeling. "

University of Rochester Medical Center, "Understanding The Teen Brain"

DragonRaptor06 · 2022-02-26T18:27:45+00:00

Give your "friend" a reality check by telling him that obsessing over younger women (especially teenagers) is predatory, and talking trash about women will not give him any action.

If this doesn't work, then he's a lost cause and you would probably see his mugshot in the future.

martini29 · 2022-02-26T20:26:44+00:00

pedophilia is actually way the shit more common than you would hope

BubbhaJebus · 2022-02-27T00:28:59+00:00

Young and naive, inexperienced and easy to deceive.

jejuned · 2022-02-26T14:10:31+00:00

it's because the younger a woman is the less likely she is able to see the bullshit for what it is. less developed brain = easier to manipulate.

if your friend is in his 30s and lusting after teenagers you should probably stop being friends with him though tbh, like that is absolutely vile

fijupanda · 2022-02-26T21:52:41+00:00

they are but empty vessels that the RPers want to fill with their viewpoints and train them to be perfect wifey material one day.

seeingredagain · 2022-02-27T04:24:40+00:00

He wants them to have women's bodies, but also wants them young enough that he can groom them.

Carloverguy20 · 2022-02-26T19:54:33+00:00

Coach Redpill made a video about it saying don't date women over 25.

To Manospherians and Redpillers, 18-23 year old girls are usually inexperienced, naive, wants to party, and are easy to manipulate, and they haven't hit the "Wall" according to them, and there's this stereotype that younger women love older men.

Women after 22 years old are more mature and are not willing to put up with the nonsense manospherians like to spew, so they think that younger girls would love to put up with them.

idontreallyknow5575 · 2022-02-27T06:43:58+00:00

He's a pervert and is trying to mask it by putting the blame on women saying they are too difficult. Like you said, he doesn't even have experience with those girls so how would he know? It's just a cop out for them to avoid admitting their attraction to young girls. I don't care what men say or how they so desperately try to justify it, it is not normal for a 30's man to be looking at teenage girls. A lot of these RP men have ephebophilla (and sometimes even look at preteens). They are not attracted to adult women. This is why they call women "old" at such young ages. When this "the wall" shit first came out, they were calling women as young as 23 old! Then people started calling them out and now they say 30 is when we are old, which is absurd. The truth is, no matter where you are on the spectrum ladies, early 20's, passed 25, 30, 40's, or menopause it doesn't even matter, you are already old to them simply by being an adult woman. Sorry a rant there.

heeeymrtangerineman · 2022-02-27T01:10:28+00:00

Women seek older men, so it’s easier to hook up with one… and that about it

That being said, the thing men don’t tell each other is that other than their youth and maybe looks, there isn’t much else to enjoy about them

They don’t have the experience to be good sex nor conversation partners, or the resources to travel or explore life with… generally they’re just boring and shallow so it’s not even worth the effort bc at the end after sexy time is done, you’re just stuck taking care of a child that not yours

Training_Passenger79 · 2022-02-27T23:28:50+00:00

The thing about teen women (and men) is that they lack experience and they look up to older people - regardless of sex.

Adults can use this to their advantage because, having knowledge and experience, they can persuade younger people to believe things they wouldn’t normally have believed if they’d been more exposed to more information and experience.

Luckily, this is changing. Teens are a lot “smarter” now than they used to be and a lot more informed about movements like TRP. They’re arming themselves against becoming indoctrinated, and protecting themselves from narcissists, psychopaths, and other psychologically ill people, to include those who turn to red pill because they resent being rejected by the opposite sex.

It’s unfortunate that can’t unfuck your “friend”s hindered cognition, but maybe don’t get too close to them as they could have other mental problems as well. Wanting to be with people that are unrelatable to your age group is probably the biggest red flag you can find in a person.

Think about it. Old guy drooling after young girl/ young girl drooling after old men? These are people with psychological problems. Be particularly on the look out for “covert” narcissism (which isn’t an official DSM diagnosis but is accepted by the field of psychology).

Anyways. The best thing we can do is teach teens about TRP. I know a teen who was very close to being red pilled before he realized how to seek the truth for himself. We need to teach teens how to look for truth & tell the ways to identify manipulative arguments that appear to use science and statistics while they are, in fact, drawing invalid conclusions from otherwise valid data. People don’t understand that difference today. Not even adults.

You won’t see this predatory behavior a dozen years from now. Teens are a lot sharper these days than people think - at least, most are.

Astral-avocado · 2024-01-03T08:58:44+00:00

Why are you friends with this creep? Cut him off.

mferritto56 · 2024-12-30T14:25:15+00:00

Ewww. He sounds like a creep. He’s mad as he wants someone to control and he wants a submissive little girl that has no mind to speak up for herself, that’s literally why.

WhoDoomsTheDoomer · 2022-02-26T22:50:12+00:00

A lot of infantilizing women in this thread. I expected better honestly

Visible-Doughnut-782 · 2022-02-27T03:05:38+00:00

It’s an uncomfortable truth for some but there is a wealth of data confirming that the vast majority of men find woman to be at their most sexually appealing during her late teens and early twenties. This is irrespective of if the male is 13 or 80. Who he is most attracted doesn’t change as he ages. It is ridiculous that men are often-including on this thread- shamed for having absolutely mainstream sexual preferences driven by 100’s of thousands of years of evolution. It makes complete logical sense that Woman are most sexually attractive to most men at this age point because this is when they are most fertile.

According to lots of readily available data Woman are commonly most attracted to men 10 years older( late 20’s-to mid 30’s) than the age range Men find most sexually attractive. Again this is for clear evolutionary reasons. Typically this is when a mans physical peak intersects with his societal peak.

SadBox4529 · 2022-02-26T15:19:12+00:00

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xvszero · 2022-02-26T16:10:18+00:00

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CaptinSuspenders · 2022-02-26T14:21:14+00:00

Fertillity tends to be the biggest idea around the topic you posted about.

so many down votes for just saying the truth?

ohphoshizzle88 · 2022-02-26T20:28:27+00:00

Seeing it from both sides here, rather than using shaming tactics, maybe a different perspective. As a former red piller there are still some lessons that aren't completely useless.

Gentleman A never dated in his twenties, most girls found him unattractive for a plethora of reasons most men have heard or encountered. He reaches 30+ and now in a spot to date and be attractive to women from ALL age brackets including the young ones.

Without getting too much into the weeds, a 18+ year old semi attractive women is never going to experience what gentleman A had to go through to build up his attraction. She may not like the constant attention, but it's always available if she chooses. So if 30 year old gentleman wants to live that out he should be able too. No one bats an eye when it's reversed when a young twenty year old is with a much older dude or when a older women only dates young men. Both are consenting adults who are mutually benefitting from the "partnership."

HeartCatchHana · 2022-02-26T19:40:17+00:00

Most men prefer youthfulness

No-Writing-9626 · 2022-02-27T10:14:26+00:00

It’s kinda ridiculous that they also talk about pedos and sex trafficking but none of them actually do anything to help this cause. They have this fix on pedo.

greyman0425 · 2022-04-21T02:02:21+00:00

This guy is a creep.

TheZimboKing · 2022-09-06T08:13:15+00:00

Easy to deceive and control, also easy to build up and lead.

They are clay. You can do good or bad with them.

Don't know about your friend, but younger women are it.

patheticinsecurelser · 2022-09-18T16:47:26+00:00

17-21 years olds are dumb , but these 30 year old men think they are , that’s the problem

Ivannnnn2 · 2023-01-10T01:18:04+00:00

Young girls are easier to have sex with because they're hornier and don't have a long term relationship.

Women in their 30s are far less likely to hook up.

Everyone is jumping on the "he want's to manipulate train" which is not at all necessarily true.

Title	What’s this obsession with 18-19 year olds?
Author	SadBox4529
Upvotes	128
Comments	147
Date	February 26, 2022 2:01 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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