Messaging on Dating Apps, tips?

Daniele_Lyon · 2018-02-18T16:29:47+00:00

1) wait that she likes you too.

2) wait 1-2 day after she liked you.

3) ask 1 personal information (where are you from?) - so she understand that you are interested.

4) check profile of the girl, and learn more info about her. Now you have to search for something to talk about. (Film, books, etc)

Extra: don’t be scared to talk with all girls that like you. Even if you don’t find her very attractive, start a conversation anyway. This is a social skill that you have to mastery. And is not like pick up girls, so take care. Be patient. You have to learn.

DrakeRae · 2018-02-19T04:59:33+00:00

I would say just avoid being too forward and too easy for the girl but make sure you ask them out on a date. You're the man so you have to move things forward.

A good reply to "hey how are you doing" would be just to answer it with "good" and talk a little about what you're up to and what you want to do. Replying with a one word reply will mess up the conversation.

Another mistake that I would avoid making is also replying with a text alot longer than hers. It's ok if it's a little longer. Not by much. The more text she writes, then you can write as much as her. When you write too much text, you run into the risk of looking desperate.

Flirtiness, yes. You can be flirty, but not too flirty. This depends on the type of girl and how much she is attracted to your looks based on your pictures. The more she's attracted to your looks and you fit her blueprint, the more you get away with in just about everything. As a general rule though, too much of anything is a bad thing.

Aeon199 · 2018-02-18T05:31:05+00:00

Is there a guide anyone can reference me to avoid mistakes?

The best guide for that I ever found was to avoid joining.

Alex_O7 · 2018-02-18T08:59:41+00:00

A little tip is to use something in girls profile to start the conversation, maybe something in one of her photos or in the description. After that i think a lot depend on the girl you face off, in some case you have to be more direct, but in other (girls who want relationship at most) you have to know them better, starting to talking about her and your passion, work, future, ecc...

rathyAro · 2018-02-18T06:05:19+00:00

I've been messing with tinder (catfishing as a hot guy, average girl etc). I noticed none of the guys say anything all that clever or special. And as the hot guy I would just say basic shit and girls would actually elaborate on their responses and make it easy to follow up.... kinda like real life

My point: looking better in your profile and it'll be easy to have a conversation. Don't be afraid of a shirtless pic if you look good.

Title	Messaging on Dating Apps, tips?
Author	bootyholeminer
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	February 18, 2018 5:19 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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