Here's a great idea that I've been unintentionally pursuing…

If you get one-itis, why not just fucking chase the shit out of her until the hoe says no? No waiting around for the 'right moment'. Just go in guns blazing like you're itching to anyways. Seriously, quickest way to get over it, right, if you've been hurt bad by her? It's what you want to do anyways. Aren't you just doing what your emotions tell you is best for you, doing exactly what you want to do in the first place?

If you get her… great. Done. If you don't, then eventually you will fuck up bad enough for her to make her say No. By then, yeah, it'll hurt (Either or, you'll regret both) but at least you'll be over it. And shit, maybe you'll learn something or two in the process.