so, there is a girl I kind of like in my office.

when I recently joined the office, we had a conversation here and they were good.

one day we hit it off. like really good talking and there was vibe matching and she was also responding in a positive way.

i thought like okay the game is good here. so I escalated in terms of talking and teasing.

one day after our office party we went together in a car. my phone got into the swimming pool and thus I could not contact my friends, we waited for a cab...and in the meanwhile had a long conversation where she told about her recent breakup and I also talked about mine...nd we were talking. there was some sort of banter and tease present.

after that she went on a trip and everything went flat. the conversation in person and texting and all. I made an effort but nothing happened.

so, i decided to pullback and think let her initiate a conversation. so, I sort of ignored her for a week more to see, what's her response.

we used to have eye contacts subtly like tension build up and stuff.

but that is totally off now. I am confused like what went wrong.

i played the mysterious game as well. did not reveal too much, flirt and tease was also going on good

I want to understand the game of it now.

I am back after 3 years into this dating game. help me out folks.