This is another thing I learned over my NoGame experiment. I think it stems from the fact when you can still have abundance but don't care as much because you're no longer investing time or thought to "learning game".

Basically with girls that were into me texting it would be going very well, longer replies on her side and entertaining reads. Then I'd screw up when they sent me a/another shit test and I responded with a confusing misinterpret or a ridiculous agree and amplify. The texting would usually fizzle from there.

What I started doing instead is just not replying. I did it accidentally a few times then realized that the girl is having the exact same anxieties when they're texting. We both want to be liked by the other, if not we wouldn't invest the time into the interaction. Subsequently when you stop replying they get the exact same feeling that we get when the girl ghosts you.

(soft closed off a medium length texting conversation. Had already got her to agree to the activity and she had suggested the weekend)

BJT: Let's catch up saturday

(4x as long to reply compared to previous)

GG: I might be starting a new job

Anyway I'll let you know

Know it's a shit test because earlier she told me she hadn't found work yet.

3 days of radio silence, Saturday is tomorrow (note- usually go for the close 0-3 days before)

GG: hey!

what are you up to today??