Hey seddit, I've been browsing this sub-reddit for a few weeks and i'm really enjoying it, and am actually noticing a positive change in my dealings with women.

But i feel like I've found a bottle neck in my learning performance. Verbal communication... At the start of meeting some girl I do alright. I start off well and keep a conversation going about all the regular stuff. Where are you from? What do you do? Why do you do what you do? What do you enjoy about it? And I can keeps this going for maybe an hour or two. And during this time I feel outgoing and confident and see attraction building and it is easy to initiate kino by jumping to some funny tangent and touching her elbow or side of the arm and go from there.

But then I run out of things to talk about and i'm dead in the water... It becomes very hard to continue with the kino, awkwardness sets in and goodbye success! I tend to end up in the friendzone level... WTF?!

My interests are pretty geeky (psychology[MBTI -xNTx here :)], philosophy, cosmology, computers) and i've learned NOT to talk about them, (It just becomes a lecture...) So how do I learn the way to talk about nothing in an awesome and attractive way?

What are the topics between, Where do you work/live? and Can you get the next condom?