Night Game Help?: Positive interactions have resulted in nothing but "ghosting" and "no-replies"

No_Plan8250 · 2024-02-13T15:23:23+00:00

She grabs you, and you respond by asking for her number? Sort those logistics out, and finish the night off with a bang. Yes, pun intended.

If you're missing invitations like that, it's no wonder these women are ghosting you. Get brave, and make the ask.

ButtholeInspecter · 2024-02-13T15:14:54+00:00

I hardly ask for numbers at bars/clubs anymore. The reason being, if you don’t go home with the chick that night, you likely never will.

Hoenomics 101.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-13T15:37:58+00:00

Bro, if they are making out with you and grabbing your Johnson, that means they want you to take them home and sleep with them. Women live in the moment, if you don't take an extremely obvious hint like that, then you will never talk to them again. Hell, they probably don't even remember you.

Additionally, why are you trying to take hoes out on dates, dude? These girls are literally making out with you and groping you after talking to them for a few minutes or hour, and you want to take these girls out with a date and sleep with them instead of taking them home that night?? Yes, doing that will absolutely get you ghosted.

If you makeout with a girl on a date that's enough to get her back to your place, if she grabs your johnson, that means she's definitely ready, dude.

Read this to learn how to not be outcome dependent: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/why-men-should-date-multiple-women?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

DaygameCode · 2024-02-13T17:26:44+00:00

What happens in night club stays in nightclubs. Either take a woman home that same night to have sex or you will likely never see her again.

TRTGymBro · 2024-02-13T16:54:42+00:00

It sounds like once she expresses interest, your head starts spinning and you get needy and over invested. Learn to deaccelerate these type of things. Be harder to get and not that available. Don't fast forward in your head what sex with her will he like, etc. Have an end game to your night. Whether it's an after party, or a night cap, whatever. This way you can always tell her: "hey, I think Im done with this place. Heading home for a night cap. You are welcome to join if you want". And then start leaving. Don't hand around waiting for her to give you an answer. She may or may not come. Don't take her number.

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2024-02-13T19:26:28+00:00

Don't overthink, it's not something you do, women are just like that. Even if you have sex with her, the odds of seeing her again are less favorable than a coin toss. That's their modus operandi when on club nights.

Best thing to do is to try to F-close that same night and then don't text them until after a few days. And the text needs to be straight to the point. If she replies, good. If she doesn't, well, if you closed that one you shouldn't have too many problems closing a new one later.

The thing is that for them, making out and having sex with a random stranger is hot: adventurous, exciting, fun. Once you text them you stop being a stranger and, especially if it's the day after, you come off as needy. They know you want to see them again and potentially date, and most of the time they don't want that, it was just a club fling.

On the other hand, if you don't text them and ever run into them again, they will be more open to repeat. But if you did, they will try to avoid you.

Dandys3107 · 2024-02-14T11:32:15+00:00

You reached the point where only proper followup was to somehow take her to some private space and duck her brains out. Instead, you backed out. There are two options she could consider, either you are afraid of sex or you can't provide proper circumstances to get intimate. Each of them are rather a big turn off. Obviously you probably just thought that this is improper to get to sex so quickly, so you just need to realise it is not. Time is not an issue, it's about intensity of emotions and intimacy.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-02-13T15:33:28+00:00

There's no such thing as outcome independence where you become outcome dependent. Are you having a good time? Yes? Excellent. The game is literally all or nothing - if she is also having a good time, she will make sure you have your number. Just run up the score.

Jironasaurus · 2024-02-13T23:12:51+00:00

Out of sight, out of mind.

Whatever state she was in when she met you, it's gone the next day after she woke up. You could lead the interaction and tried to suggest heading back to your place or hers. OR... you could focus on building her desire for you. That way, when she wakes up, she remembers how amazing your company was and genuinely wants to see you again.

ShameAffectionate15 · 2024-02-14T00:25:54+00:00

Yes more or less thats the nature of night game. Its because when she wakes up tomorrow she doesnt want to be seen as “slutty” so she will ignore the guys (plural) she met the night before. Thats even if the whole interaction was positive. However ofc there are opportunities to meet ur gf/wife in these settings. However thats not the nature and thats just how women have it set up. “All a guy wants to do is smash” even if he isnt looking to smash like urself so thats how its an all or nothing nature in nightgame.

Title	Night Game Help?: Positive interactions have resulted in nothing but "ghosting" and "no-replies"
Author	dornielabs
Upvotes	6
Comments	13
Date	February 13, 2024 3:05 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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