No instagram

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-02-01T04:39:28+00:00

Nobody gives a fuck about how many followers you have, especially if it’s only in the hundreds or even below 10k. What matters is the content on your profile. High quality attractive photos of yourself, photos showing you doing cool things, going to cool places, having an active social life, hanging out with attractive women. And the only way to have a profile like this is to actually be an attractive man and be consistently doing high quality things over a long period of time. Which takes time. It’s not something you can just artificially manufacture.

Just go to a fucking bar or club, go to highly populated daytime spots in large cities, download 5 different dating apps (whatever floats your boat) and just talk to women. This isn’t that difficult. You guys make this shit way harder than it needs to be and overthink everything

Dakessian · 2024-02-01T06:51:34+00:00

I don’t think you need insta to get laid.

babydelts · 2024-02-01T04:57:48+00:00

honestly if an ig is worth it to you i’d build it up with real people from scratch. it’ll be obvious that the profile is new so you don’t have to worry about having low followers for a while. what looks bad is having 200 followers but very few likes or genuine comments on your page, it looks fake. that said I don’t think an instagram is totally necessary

thepobv · 2024-02-01T13:39:18+00:00

Bruh. Don't buy followers 🤦‍♂️

Vipul2k · 2024-02-01T06:13:06+00:00

tbh a good quality private profile with very few less than 50 followers is attractive, If it's genuine. and idts anyone will doubt about if the profile is yours or not

knetwotheeeee · 2024-02-01T12:24:00+00:00

Mate! I deleted my Instagram after high school. I have over a thousand followers and gave a shit about it but realized it’s toxic and found it wasteful. So I was in the same boat as you.

Went into college with no instagram. No one found it wierd. Decided to get it back and now I have like 150 followers? All my close friends only I don’t let anyone else in it - besides I don’t even post lol I never use it.

What I learned: it’s useless it’s toxic and there’s no actual point. Game has nothing to do with Instagram and if you think having a cool Instagram will give you “status” your absolutely wrong.

mutantpbandj · 2024-02-01T05:46:37+00:00

Just make another account. People start over all the time.

SquilliamTentickles · 2024-02-01T09:19:17+00:00

Fuck instagram. It's toxic and it's societal cancer.

You don't need instagram to get chicks. I know people without instagram who go to 2 parties each week and get laid at least once per night.

Don't be an instagram simpcuck.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-02-01T18:06:33+00:00

This is my take as someone who’s a little bit older. Aside from the dating benefits, there is an advantage of building your own brand and identity online. If you find it toxic, just kind of ‘post and forget’. Social media is not great for mental health, but if you manage your own personal usage and kind of just let it take a background role in your life, it can have benefits.

I just started building my public brand IG last year after being staunchly anti-social media for years. It will help you socially and professionally, but can have a negative impact if not kept in check

Whole_Day9866 · 2024-02-01T21:45:38+00:00

Boy said buy followers 😂. Just build them as you go! If you already have met them in person the social media part is less of a factor. Maybe if you meet them online (OLD, etc) it may play a part but ultimately not. I have zero pictures of me on social media with my most recent being in 2017 and still pull on OLD.

DaygameCode · 2024-02-01T04:33:34+00:00

200 is no social proof. Social proof might be having 10.000 followers and they should be real, meaning they actually talk like actual humans and that comment on your post addressing you or your content in a way that is genuine, like they actually know you or admire you.

It’s a waste of time unless you really are planning on becoming an influencer. So if your goal is using instagram to fake social proof to get laid, you wasting your time it won’t help much, maybe a 1% help, which isn’t worth the effort

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-02-01T11:43:51+00:00

Obviously it may add to the mystery factor and elevate your presence from scarcity effect

Not really. That's a myth guys like to tell themselves to make themselves feel better about not being on IG. In reality, most girls will raise an eyebrow if you don't have a social presence and will assume you're hiding something like a girlfriend/wife, being a loser, or something else that they don't want.

Don't know if I'd recommend the buying followers route. I'd say add 9 decent pics to your profile that do a good job showcasing who you are and start connecting with people you meet in person on IG. Go to social events and make friends (men + women), then get their IGs. Once you hit about 300 followers, then you're pretty much good to go.

stockmaniac · 2024-02-01T05:22:00+00:00

You tryna go for a high quality women, they like to investigate who they are talking to. I'm telling you the very real result of pre ig game and post ig game. It makes a world of difference.

Not saying you still can't have drunken ons with low quality women.

Informal-Hippo-9272 · 2024-02-03T16:31:31+00:00

Instagram is fake and a waste of time. Our ancestors didn't use instagram to meet new people.

stockmaniac · 2024-02-01T04:47:41+00:00

Having an ig with a couple hundred followers but good amount of decent photos is absolutely required. It's marketing for your self they just gotta see that you live an exiting lifestyle.

You gotta start somwhere. The more people you meet and connect the larger your authentic followers become. Buying followed won't get you shit. And don't worry about the starting from scratch. I see females hide all their older photos regularly when theu upgrade their look or change their style

gurkels · 2024-02-01T17:27:17+00:00

Nobody cares how many followers you got. Don't buy followers, just search up and follow people you know, and they will follow you back.

PuroPincheGains · 2024-02-01T22:02:43+00:00

it seems like a lot of social interactions involve the gram

They don't. Social interactions happen in person. if a girl is trying to give you her Insta instead of her number, she's rejecting you. If by social interactions you mean casual conversations between friends, then sure. But nobody gets laid because of their Insta unless they're rich and/or famous and their Insta portrays this.

redspikedog · 2024-02-02T04:58:20+00:00

Some of the best gamers out there dont have Social Media : ). So it's ok!

Title	No instagram
Author	carpetmagicianlaughs
Upvotes	89
Comments	32
Date	February 1, 2024 4:19 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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